Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 15:21     Subject: Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Isn't the house half hers, too? And wouldn't the husband being walking away with his half if they divorced?

Not understanding your point or why you think that this is even a teeny bit of your beeswax.


He had it before they were married. Way before.


And this is your business why?


+1! OP, are you too happy today? Is this Christmas just too calm? Do you feel the need to mix it up and create drama?

Here's a question: what about you? What's your BMI? What about your wife?

Wow! A judge at Christmas dinner ... never saw that before ...
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 15:20     Subject: Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
Anonymous wrote:If he leaves her she would likely walk away with half of his net worth including the house.
It is very obvious he does not look happy.
Should I say something to him about it.


um, what would you say? MYOB!
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 15:17     Subject: Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
Anonymous wrote:I'm still trying to understand what a person's BMI has to do with home value. ?


+1 I think I missed the linkage.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 15:15     Subject: Re:Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
Definitely don't speak over anyone when you bring this up at dinner, that would be rude. Just wait until there's a lull in conversation.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 15:00     Subject: Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
Anonymous wrote:I'm still trying to understand what a person's BMI has to do with home value. ?


Huh?
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:57     Subject: Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
Anonymous wrote:Did they buy it together before they married? If so, it is still and always has been half hers.


No he bought it before they were married.
The land was deserted when he bought it but recently the entire area has been undergoing lots of development.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:53     Subject: Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
I'm still trying to understand what a person's BMI has to do with home value. ?
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:49     Subject: Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
Did they buy it together before they married? If so, it is still and always has been half hers.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:47     Subject: Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Isn't the house half hers, too? And wouldn't the husband being walking away with his half if they divorced?

Not understanding your point or why you think that this is even a teeny bit of your beeswax.


He had it before they were married. Way before.


And this is your business why?
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:46     Subject: Re:Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
Go ahead and bring it up, OP.
You will now have one family member who will have an incredible Festivus with lots of grievances to air.
Get ready to be the target of those grievances.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:46     Subject: Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
Anonymous wrote:Isn't the house half hers, too? And wouldn't the husband being walking away with his half if they divorced?

Not understanding your point or why you think that this is even a teeny bit of your beeswax.


He had it before they were married. Way before.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:44     Subject: Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
Anonymous wrote:troll


Not a troll.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:44     Subject: Re:Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This sounds like a postcard from a morally bankrupt family Christmas gathering. Assumptions here include that 1) he is miserable because his wife is fat; 2) he will leave her because she is fat; 3) his decision-making about marriage should be based on finances.


The house is worth at least 500k and it is rapidly increasing in value. One must seriously take this into consideration.


They're in a 500K house? On DCUM we call that a sh*t shack. These relatives are clearly not worth your time. Head for the punch bowl and chat up bigger fish.


Its not worth as much because its kind of far out of the beltway.
Inside the beltway perhaps 800k, 900k?
I am not in real estate but in a closer in location it would be worth a lot more.
But still not chump change by any means.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:42     Subject: Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
Bring it up in the middle of Christmas dinner
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2015 14:37     Subject: Family member's wife gained a lot of weight. He does not look happy. Should I say something?
troll