I don't think OP is so wrong here. If the woman was sitting there, head back, eyes closed, reciting illnesses, that is not conversation. That's a monologue, and it is rude and selfish. Make eye contact, at least!

Anonymous wrote:I get to hear World War II era stories about schoolmates of FIL. scintillating.

I'm early '40s and a historian. I might want to hear some of those. Beats my mother's stories of outrages on public transit.

Back on track here. My family is like this. Also add in trips to Walmart and what was purchased and meals recently eaten.