Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yes.
In my early-mid twenties I had what my friends referred to as "fairy dust". Almost every guy I talked to, young or middle aged had a tendency to act goofy around me. If I wanted to, I could've made them my boyfriends very easily. I think the biggest contributor was the sheer power of youth. From 21-25 I blossomed. I was not a party-er or a drinker so compared to other girls, I was extremely well preserved. I also looked younger than my age. So youthful beauty + looking even younger than my age was the secret ingredient. Apart from that, that was a phase in my life where I was looking for attention. I dressed in tight, fitted clothes wore my hair long and silky and had dark kohl lined eyes. Men were putty in my hands. I was also flirty and giggly and had a fun careless attitude.
I'm 28 now and married for a year. The immense attention I received stopped around 27. I also had to deal with some major life crisis so it may be that or maybe I lost my looks.
Eitherway, yes, some women definitely have this quality and most likely in their early twenties.
You are too young to have lost your looks! It probably has more to do with the fact that you're married and no longer out there.
Anonymous wrote:I think women who have a life of their own, are happy and caring have the easiest time with this. Notice I didn't say women who are hot, smart, rich, skinny, or anything else.
Anonymous wrote:Yes.
In my early-mid twenties I had what my friends referred to as "fairy dust". Almost every guy I talked to, young or middle aged had a tendency to act goofy around me. If I wanted to, I could've made them my boyfriends very easily. I think the biggest contributor was the sheer power of youth. From 21-25 I blossomed. I was not a party-er or a drinker so compared to other girls, I was extremely well preserved. I also looked younger than my age. So youthful beauty + looking even younger than my age was the secret ingredient. Apart from that, that was a phase in my life where I was looking for attention. I dressed in tight, fitted clothes wore my hair long and silky and had dark kohl lined eyes. Men were putty in my hands. I was also flirty and giggly and had a fun careless attitude.
I'm 28 now and married for a year. The immense attention I received stopped around 27. I also had to deal with some major life crisis so it may be that or maybe I lost my looks.
Eitherway, yes, some women definitely have this quality and most likely in their early twenties.
Anonymous wrote:Why would they need to have so many people fall in love with them if their love lives were satisfying?
I'd think their tricks were more impressive if each got the one guy of her choice to fall in love with her, and then to stay with her for the next 50 years.
Anonymous wrote:I do know someone that men follow like the Pied Piper. She is close to 50, singularly unattractive, smokes, drinks to excess, but men seem to find her irresistible. She is a throwback to Haight-Ashbury and dresses like a Hippie.