I can't follow your nutty post, OP.

So, until this phone call, no one in your family has actually had a conversation about the holidays other than one email exchange between two of you back in the summer? That is pretty amazing.

I'm so confused. Your post doesn't make sense, for example, you never planned on having your mom visit for Thanksgiving so what's up with the complaint about the turkey?

Sorry, OP, but your post is meaningless. You must be quite upset!

If you write something objectively with all the main facts, we'll be more helpful.

I don't know what in theeee heck you are talking about