Anonymous wrote:So the CDC is basing its numbers at least in part on educational diagnoses of autism by schools, despite the fact that those are not actually medical diagnoses? That explains a lot.
LOLAnonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid is mis-diagnosed. Kids should be able to get services if they need them without the diagnosis, but they don't. The diagnosis is very subjective.
Your child can always get a developmental delay label for an IEP when young. My DS who already had an Asperger's diagnosis got his IEP under "developmental delays" until he was in K.
Ok, but we don't have an IEP, so that doesn't work for us. We are doing all services privately.
But the point is that young children usually get an IEP under "developmental delay" not "autism" so a diagnosis of autism is not necessary to get free services.
But, you are missing the point. Not everyone gets "free" services or wants them through the school system. Our insurance will pay for a variety of diagnosis but we are stuck with a developmental ped who says it is autism (now autism by history as there are no signs). We cannot get rid of the label. Other regular docs have tried as they disagree with how he is using the diagnosis.
OP, did you ever think that your obsession with the label and the over/misdiagnosis of autism is a sign of perseveration? Maybe your kid isn't autistic, but you certainly show signs of it in your repeated postings. I think you need more help than your kid. Please get some.
So she and her child have been done a grave injustice, and is angry about it, and you try to claim it's a "sign of perseveration?"

Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid is mis-diagnosed. Kids should be able to get services if they need them without the diagnosis, but they don't. The diagnosis is very subjective.
Your child can always get a developmental delay label for an IEP when young. My DS who already had an Asperger's diagnosis got his IEP under "developmental delays" until he was in K.
Ok, but we don't have an IEP, so that doesn't work for us. We are doing all services privately.
But the point is that young children usually get an IEP under "developmental delay" not "autism" so a diagnosis of autism is not necessary to get free services.
But, you are missing the point. Not everyone gets "free" services or wants them through the school system. Our insurance will pay for a variety of diagnosis but we are stuck with a developmental ped who says it is autism (now autism by history as there are no signs). We cannot get rid of the label. Other regular docs have tried as they disagree with how he is using the diagnosis.
OP, did you ever think that your obsession with the label and the over/misdiagnosis of autism is a sign of perseveration? Maybe your kid isn't autistic, but you certainly show signs of it in your repeated postings. I think you need more help than your kid. Please get some.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid is mis-diagnosed. Kids should be able to get services if they need them without the diagnosis, but they don't. The diagnosis is very subjective.
Your child can always get a developmental delay label for an IEP when young. My DS who already had an Asperger's diagnosis got his IEP under "developmental delays" until he was in K.
Ok, but we don't have an IEP, so that doesn't work for us. We are doing all services privately.
But the point is that young children usually get an IEP under "developmental delay" not "autism" so a diagnosis of autism is not necessary to get free services.
But, you are missing the point. Not everyone gets "free" services or wants them through the school system. Our insurance will pay for a variety of diagnosis but we are stuck with a developmental ped who says it is autism (now autism by history as there are no signs). We cannot get rid of the label. Other regular docs have tried as they disagree with how he is using the diagnosis.
OP, did you ever think that your obsession with the label and the over/misdiagnosis of autism is a sign of perseveration? Maybe your kid isn't autistic, but you certainly show signs of it in your repeated postings. I think you need more help than your kid. Please get some.
So she and her child have been done a grave injustice, and is angry about it, and you try to claim it's a "sign of perseveration?"
Thank you. Its a very real issue when your child is underestimated and considered lesser in terms of getting an education when your child can handle strong academics and much more. Its not about being angry. I am far from angry but I want my child accurately diagnoses and treated. How would you feel if your child was inaccurately diagnosed, you spend months or years in unnecessary services taking away from their childhood, etc.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid is mis-diagnosed. Kids should be able to get services if they need them without the diagnosis, but they don't. The diagnosis is very subjective.
Your child can always get a developmental delay label for an IEP when young. My DS who already had an Asperger's diagnosis got his IEP under "developmental delays" until he was in K.
Ok, but we don't have an IEP, so that doesn't work for us. We are doing all services privately.
But the point is that young children usually get an IEP under "developmental delay" not "autism" so a diagnosis of autism is not necessary to get free services.
But, you are missing the point. Not everyone gets "free" services or wants them through the school system. Our insurance will pay for a variety of diagnosis but we are stuck with a developmental ped who says it is autism (now autism by history as there are no signs). We cannot get rid of the label. Other regular docs have tried as they disagree with how he is using the diagnosis.
OP, did you ever think that your obsession with the label and the over/misdiagnosis of autism is a sign of perseveration? Maybe your kid isn't autistic, but you certainly show signs of it in your repeated postings. I think you need more help than your kid. Please get some.
So she and her child have been done a grave injustice, and is angry about it, and you try to claim it's a "sign of perseveration?"
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid is mis-diagnosed. Kids should be able to get services if they need them without the diagnosis, but they don't. The diagnosis is very subjective.
Your child can always get a developmental delay label for an IEP when young. My DS who already had an Asperger's diagnosis got his IEP under "developmental delays" until he was in K.
Ok, but we don't have an IEP, so that doesn't work for us. We are doing all services privately.
But the point is that young children usually get an IEP under "developmental delay" not "autism" so a diagnosis of autism is not necessary to get free services.
But, you are missing the point. Not everyone gets "free" services or wants them through the school system. Our insurance will pay for a variety of diagnosis but we are stuck with a developmental ped who says it is autism (now autism by history as there are no signs). We cannot get rid of the label. Other regular docs have tried as they disagree with how he is using the diagnosis.
OP, did you ever think that your obsession with the label and the over/misdiagnosis of autism is a sign of perseveration? Maybe your kid isn't autistic, but you certainly show signs of it in your repeated postings. I think you need more help than your kid. Please get some.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Here we go again...
My child has Asperger's and ADHD and I am glad that he has a diagnosis and gets help and supports including an IEP for social communication issues. He does not need supports for academics. The "label" has only been a win-win for us.
He gets all his services, speech/social skills and OT, at school where he needs it for free so no insurance issues.
This does not disprove that "money follows diagnosis." He is getting the extra free services because you got a diagnosis. The questions is, if there were no free services or treatments, would you and your doctor have gotten him a diagnosis.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid is mis-diagnosed. Kids should be able to get services if they need them without the diagnosis, but they don't. The diagnosis is very subjective.
Your child can always get a developmental delay label for an IEP when young. My DS who already had an Asperger's diagnosis got his IEP under "developmental delays" until he was in K.
Ok, but we don't have an IEP, so that doesn't work for us. We are doing all services privately.
But the point is that young children usually get an IEP under "developmental delay" not "autism" so a diagnosis of autism is not necessary to get free services.
But, you are missing the point. Not everyone gets "free" services or wants them through the school system. Our insurance will pay for a variety of diagnosis but we are stuck with a developmental ped who says it is autism (now autism by history as there are no signs). We cannot get rid of the label. Other regular docs have tried as they disagree with how he is using the diagnosis.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Here we go again...
My child has Asperger's and ADHD and I am glad that he has a diagnosis and gets help and supports including an IEP for social communication issues. He does not need supports for academics. The "label" has only been a win-win for us.
He gets all his services, speech/social skills and OT, at school where he needs it for free so no insurance issues.
This does not disprove that "money follows diagnosis." He is getting the extra free services because you got a diagnosis. The questions is, if there were no free services or treatments, would you and your doctor have gotten him a diagnosis.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid is mis-diagnosed. Kids should be able to get services if they need them without the diagnosis, but they don't. The diagnosis is very subjective.
Your child can always get a developmental delay label for an IEP when young. My DS who already had an Asperger's diagnosis got his IEP under "developmental delays" until he was in K.
Ok, but we don't have an IEP, so that doesn't work for us. We are doing all services privately.
But the point is that young children usually get an IEP under "developmental delay" not "autism" so a diagnosis of autism is not necessary to get free services.
But, you are missing the point. Not everyone gets "free" services or wants them through the school system. Our insurance will pay for a variety of diagnosis but we are stuck with a developmental ped who says it is autism (now autism by history as there are no signs). We cannot get rid of the label. Other regular docs have tried as they disagree with how he is using the diagnosis.
Why don't you change doctors? We did. I fired our dev ped over something a lot less than a wrong diagnosis. It's easy.
Anonymous wrote:Here we go again...
My child has Asperger's and ADHD and I am glad that he has a diagnosis and gets help and supports including an IEP for social communication issues. He does not need supports for academics. The "label" has only been a win-win for us.
He gets all his services, speech/social skills and OT, at school where he needs it for free so no insurance issues.