Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm pretty crazy about Christmas and the spirit of giving so I go a little nuts.
We have no children but I usually spend about $100 on my godson.
Recently married into 3 nephews and 1 niece, last year spent about $200 including shipping sending their toys.
$250 on two sets of parents, usually dinner/movie gift cards
$200 between 4 siblings/in-laws
Then I usually spend around $200 for wrapping, ribbons, bows, cards and some kind of baking project for aunts/uncles/cousins and fave colleagues (one year I did pies in mini jars, another bread loaves, baileys nips and hot choc in mugs, etc)
DH and I went a little crazy for our first married Christmas, also our first physically being together on the holidays so we spent about $500-$750 on each other
How much to charity?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm pretty crazy about Christmas and the spirit of giving so I go a little nuts.
We have no children but I usually spend about $100 on my godson.
Recently married into 3 nephews and 1 niece, last year spent about $200 including shipping sending their toys.
$250 on two sets of parents, usually dinner/movie gift cards
$200 between 4 siblings/in-laws
Then I usually spend around $200 for wrapping, ribbons, bows, cards and some kind of baking project for aunts/uncles/cousins and fave colleagues (one year I did pies in mini jars, another bread loaves, baileys nips and hot choc in mugs, etc)
DH and I went a little crazy for our first married Christmas, also our first physically being together on the holidays so we spent about $500-$750 on each other
How much to charity?
Anonymous wrote:I'm pretty crazy about Christmas and the spirit of giving so I go a little nuts.
We have no children but I usually spend about $100 on my godson.
Recently married into 3 nephews and 1 niece, last year spent about $200 including shipping sending their toys.
$250 on two sets of parents, usually dinner/movie gift cards
$200 between 4 siblings/in-laws
Then I usually spend around $200 for wrapping, ribbons, bows, cards and some kind of baking project for aunts/uncles/cousins and fave colleagues (one year I did pies in mini jars, another bread loaves, baileys nips and hot choc in mugs, etc)
DH and I went a little crazy for our first married Christmas, also our first physically being together on the holidays so we spent about $500-$750 on each other
Anonymous wrote:HHI 420k and we are only spending $1500 this year (normally we spend double) we anticipate a job loss after the new year that will slice our income in half. Austerity measures are already in place.
Anonymous wrote:$100 for each set of parents and our son. $50 for both of our siblings. A few random other small gifts for friends/neighbors. Total of $500 or less.
We spend another $3-400 on angel tree gifts, but that's charitable giving more than Christmas spending.
Anonymous wrote:The best thing we ever did was stop gifting gift cards or random stuff to our adult siblings. We can now concentrate on our nieces (no nephews). And our parents (in their 70s) don't care about "stuff", so we give them photos, etc. of their grandkids. (Actually, my FIL likes coffee, but for some crazy reason won't buy it for himself, so we've given him some coffee beans in the last. My dad really likes a homemade jelly from one of the farms up here, so he gets a couple of jars of jam/jelly.)
All the adult siblings agreed the same year to stop giving to each other and just work on the kids! It's much more enjoyable.