OP is correct, which is why all such threads should henceforth be addressed only to bobcats.

So utterly predictable that this is where the thread went.

But to answer the OP, yes, I think there are one or two hardcore MRA trolls on this board that start a significant number of those threads and then sockpuppet. It's very predictable because they never get into any details of their relationship, it's very glossed over, they're clearly just here to rail against women who don't give them the sex they think they're entitled to. Real people with real problems have more nuance, and usually are eager to discuss it.

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Anonymous wrote:I am sure they are real and from a diverse crowd. Sex and Money are the top reasons for divorce. Money isn't as big of an issue on DCUM.

I don't think men have any clue what married sex life is like. I didn't. I strongly contemplated leaving my marriage over the disparity in sex drives. Quite honestly, these boards helped me realize that maost couples in long term relationships don't have a lot of sex, most have sex a couple times a month and most have so-so sex when they do. Men, especially, can have a hard time figuring out "what happened to my wonderful sex partner" when the kids come. Realizing it happens to most couples helped me not take it so personally.

I think most men don't have any clue about sex in general. Or more specifically, how to have sex that actually really enjoyable for the woman.

So why are these disastified women marrying these clueless men in the first place?
Can't really blame the guy in this case

You can though because it's all about educating yourself to get better in bed.

This sort of advice has gotten so repetitive and tiresome I'm beginning to chalk these up as troll posts.

Shouldn't this apply to women as well? Frankly, my DW isn't all that great at some things either. But like most DHs here I'm so happy to get SOME sex that I don't complain about the quality of it.

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Anonymous wrote:I am sure they are real and from a diverse crowd. Sex and Money are the top reasons for divorce. Money isn't as big of an issue on DCUM.

I don't think men have any clue what married sex life is like. I didn't. I strongly contemplated leaving my marriage over the disparity in sex drives. Quite honestly, these boards helped me realize that maost couples in long term relationships don't have a lot of sex, most have sex a couple times a month and most have so-so sex when they do. Men, especially, can have a hard time figuring out "what happened to my wonderful sex partner" when the kids come. Realizing it happens to most couples helped me not take it so personally.

I think most men don't have any clue about sex in general. Or more specifically, how to have sex that actually really enjoyable for the woman.

So why are these disastified women marrying these clueless men in the first place?
Can't really blame the guy in this case

You can though because it's all about educating yourself to get better in bed.

Anonymous wrote:Most of the posts read like men wrote them and they wandered over from the explicit forum.

You can have all the sex you need or want by being nice, being helpful, taking a bath and cooking some dinner once in a while.

This goes for both sexes.

I think this is really bad advice. I mean, if you aren't doing those things - bathing, being kind, helping out - then yes, do that and see if it helps sexually.

But when you tell people (usually men) that their wife doesn't want sex with you as frequently as you do (in your words "all the sex you want") all you have to do is "x" "y" and "z" you set up expectations of failure.

I was also once a single guy with an above average member that had lots of hot sex, with lots of women, including my wife. Kids came. Marital sex is both a key to a good relationship and can be really elusive to those who can't quite figure out how to recapture it. I do think it helps if men understand women's drives are generally lower, and not to expect to "fix" every problem.

But there is so much anger on this board between the sexes that the useful honest advice gets drowned out.

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Anonymous wrote:I am sure they are real and from a diverse crowd. Sex and Money are the top reasons for divorce. Money isn't as big of an issue on DCUM.

I don't think men have any clue what married sex life is like. I didn't. I strongly contemplated leaving my marriage over the disparity in sex drives. Quite honestly, these boards helped me realize that most couples in long term relationships don't have a lot of sex, most have sex a couple times a month and most have so-so sex when they do. Men, especially, can have a hard time figuring out "what happened to my wonderful sex partner" when the kids come. Realizing it happens to most couples helped me not take it so personally.

I think most men don't have any clue about sex in general. Or more specifically, how to have sex that actually really enjoyable for the woman.

So why are these disastified women marrying these clueless men in the first place?
Can't really blame the guy in this case

Some of them probably are fake. There was a poster who started a bunch of threads where the guy was always the victim to his partner's sexual escapades. Some of these threads have a similar tone, and it's always the guy who's the victim.

I suspect it's a person who's curious about the morals and opinions of others on any given role-reversal sexual situation. If you spin a story this way, people are more than happy to show their sexist ideas. These same people probably claim not to be sexist.

Your bickering is silly. A man should be attentive and willing to please. A woman should know what she likes and doesn't like and mature enough to tell her partner.

Most of the posts read like men wrote them and they wandered over from the explicit forum.

You can have all the sex you need or want by being nice, being helpful, taking a bath and cooking some dinner once in a while.

This goes for both sexes.

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Anonymous wrote:I am sure they are real and from a diverse crowd. Sex and Money are the top reasons for divorce. Money isn't as big of an issue on DCUM.

I don't think men have any clue what married sex life is like. I didn't. I strongly contemplated leaving my marriage over the disparity in sex drives. Quite honestly, these boards helped me realize that most couples in long term relationships don't have a lot of sex, most have sex a couple times a month and most have so-so sex when they do. Men, especially, can have a hard time figuring out "what happened to my wonderful sex partner" when the kids come. Realizing it happens to most couples helped me not take it so personally.

I think most men don't have any clue about sex in general. Or more specifically, how to have sex that actually really enjoyable for the woman.

This. And women shouldn't have to make any effort to let them know what they want either! I mean they should just KNOW what women want, amiright?

Oh, so now it's the woman's job to make men not selfish in bed?

Huh.... I'm sensing a pattern here....

No, it's your job to let your partner know what does or doesn't work for you. If you expect him to learn by osmosis you're destined for a disappointing sex life. I thought all you feminists had long ago internalized the idea that "you are responsible for your own orgasm."

If you think a woman's job is to be some manic pixie dream girl who's purpose in life is to make a man functional in bed, you've gotta another thing coming.

If the man is unhappy with the volume of sex, it's his job to take initiative and figure out how to be better at it.

I'm guessing your bitterness is directly related to your very unsatisfying sex life.

And you're wrong yet again. Another pattern!

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am sure they are real and from a diverse crowd. Sex and Money are the top reasons for divorce. Money isn't as big of an issue on DCUM.

I don't think men have any clue what married sex life is like. I didn't. I strongly contemplated leaving my marriage over the disparity in sex drives. Quite honestly, these boards helped me realize that most couples in long term relationships don't have a lot of sex, most have sex a couple times a month and most have so-so sex when they do. Men, especially, can have a hard time figuring out "what happened to my wonderful sex partner" when the kids come. Realizing it happens to most couples helped me not take it so personally.

I think most men don't have any clue about sex in general. Or more specifically, how to have sex that actually really enjoyable for the woman.

This. And women shouldn't have to make any effort to let them know what they want either! I mean they should just KNOW what women want, amiright?

Oh, so now it's the woman's job to make men not selfish in bed?

Huh.... I'm sensing a pattern here....

No, it's your job to let your partner know what does or doesn't work for you. If you expect him to learn by osmosis you're destined for a disappointing sex life. I thought all you feminists had long ago internalized the idea that "you are responsible for your own orgasm."

If you think a woman's job is to be some manic pixie dream girl who's purpose in life is to make a man functional in bed, you've gotta another thing coming.

If the man is unhappy with the volume of sex, it's his job to take initiative and figure out how to be better at it.

I'm guessing your bitterness is directly related to your very unsatisfying sex life.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am sure they are real and from a diverse crowd. Sex and Money are the top reasons for divorce. Money isn't as big of an issue on DCUM.

I don't think men have any clue what married sex life is like. I didn't. I strongly contemplated leaving my marriage over the disparity in sex drives. Quite honestly, these boards helped me realize that most couples in long term relationships don't have a lot of sex, most have sex a couple times a month and most have so-so sex when they do. Men, especially, can have a hard time figuring out "what happened to my wonderful sex partner" when the kids come. Realizing it happens to most couples helped me not take it so personally.

I think most men don't have any clue about sex in general. Or more specifically, how to have sex that actually really enjoyable for the woman.

This. And women shouldn't have to make any effort to let them know what they want either! I mean they should just KNOW what women want, amiright?

Oh stop with the pity party. It's not women's fault that you're inept at reading their body language. And if a woman is not communicating with you, it's because you have not gone to the effort to make her feel comfortable. She's worried about offending your fragile ego with some constructive criticism.

I do just fine and have plenty of ladies demanding repeat visits. Frequently.

-DCUM Single Guy in 30s with a Line of Women Outside His Bedroom Door (and an Above Average Member)

You sound awesome. And hot.

-Single girl in her mid 20s who can appreciate an above average member

Written by the same person.

Keep telling yourself that. Ask Jeff if you really want to know

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am sure they are real and from a diverse crowd. Sex and Money are the top reasons for divorce. Money isn't as big of an issue on DCUM.

I don't think men have any clue what married sex life is like. I didn't. I strongly contemplated leaving my marriage over the disparity in sex drives. Quite honestly, these boards helped me realize that most couples in long term relationships don't have a lot of sex, most have sex a couple times a month and most have so-so sex when they do. Men, especially, can have a hard time figuring out "what happened to my wonderful sex partner" when the kids come. Realizing it happens to most couples helped me not take it so personally.

I think most men don't have any clue about sex in general. Or more specifically, how to have sex that actually really enjoyable for the woman.

This. And women shouldn't have to make any effort to let them know what they want either! I mean they should just KNOW what women want, amiright?

Oh stop with the pity party. It's not women's fault that you're inept at reading their body language. And if a woman is not communicating with you, it's because you have not gone to the effort to make her feel comfortable. She's worried about offending your fragile ego with some constructive criticism.

I do just fine and have plenty of ladies demanding repeat visits. Frequently.

-DCUM Single Guy in 30s with a Line of Women Outside His Bedroom Door (and an Above Average Member)

You sound awesome. And hot.

-Single girl in her mid 20s who can appreciate an above average member

Written by the same person.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am sure they are real and from a diverse crowd. Sex and Money are the top reasons for divorce. Money isn't as big of an issue on DCUM.

I don't think men have any clue what married sex life is like. I didn't. I strongly contemplated leaving my marriage over the disparity in sex drives. Quite honestly, these boards helped me realize that most couples in long term relationships don't have a lot of sex, most have sex a couple times a month and most have so-so sex when they do. Men, especially, can have a hard time figuring out "what happened to my wonderful sex partner" when the kids come. Realizing it happens to most couples helped me not take it so personally.

I think most men don't have any clue about sex in general. Or more specifically, how to have sex that actually really enjoyable for the woman.

This. And women shouldn't have to make any effort to let them know what they want either! I mean they should just KNOW what women want, amiright?

Oh stop with the pity party. It's not women's fault that you're inept at reading their body language. And if a woman is not communicating with you, it's because you have not gone to the effort to make her feel comfortable. She's worried about offending your fragile ego with some constructive criticism.

I do just fine and have plenty of ladies demanding repeat visits. Frequently.

-DCUM Single Guy in 30s with a Line of Women Outside His Bedroom Door (and an Above Average Member)

How exactly does this contribute to the discussion? Maybe you should go see to all those Women Outside Your Bedroom Door with your (Above Average Member).

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am sure they are real and from a diverse crowd. Sex and Money are the top reasons for divorce. Money isn't as big of an issue on DCUM.

I don't think men have any clue what married sex life is like. I didn't. I strongly contemplated leaving my marriage over the disparity in sex drives. Quite honestly, these boards helped me realize that most couples in long term relationships don't have a lot of sex, most have sex a couple times a month and most have so-so sex when they do. Men, especially, can have a hard time figuring out "what happened to my wonderful sex partner" when the kids come. Realizing it happens to most couples helped me not take it so personally.

I think most men don't have any clue about sex in general. Or more specifically, how to have sex that actually really enjoyable for the woman.

This. And women shouldn't have to make any effort to let them know what they want either! I mean they should just KNOW what women want, amiright?

Oh stop with the pity party. It's not women's fault that you're inept at reading their body language. And if a woman is not communicating with you, it's because you have not gone to the effort to make her feel comfortable. She's worried about offending your fragile ego with some constructive criticism.

I do just fine and have plenty of ladies demanding repeat visits. Frequently.

-DCUM Single Guy in 30s with a Line of Women Outside His Bedroom Door (and an Above Average Member)

You sound awesome. And hot.

-Single girl in her mid 20s who can appreciate an above average member