OP here. I'm 31 years old with one child on my own. I have Master (that I earned in Europe) and I think I'm kind of ashamed to admit I'm a nanny. I make about $70000 a year working +/- 50 hours a week. I would love to be a preschool teacher but could not live off their salary. im working towards opening my own day care center.

I would date a male nanny

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Anonymous wrote:I am dating a nanny but she is in school for another profession. Her being a nanny has never been an issue. In fact, I love knowing what a great mom she will be if we have children.

My DH loved this too. You're getting a woman who not only loves kids but knows how to handle them? That's a big plus if you want a family!

Pp here. I do love that. She is wonderful with kids. As to the other pp, she is paying her way through school. I will let her decided if she wants to work or stay home.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am dating a nanny but she is in school for another profession. Her being a nanny has never been an issue. In fact, I love knowing what a great mom she will be if we have children.

My DH loved this too. You're getting a woman who not only loves kids but knows how to handle them? That's a big plus if you want a family!

Being a nanny does not always translate to good mom.
If you like the person go for it, but I would say find out if they have career nanny plans or is she nannying through school.
Are you the type who wants to marry a SAHM or a mother that works?

SAHM

Then a nanny might be the kind of woman you are looking for. All you can do is date her and see where it goes,, but focus on her as a person, as longterm partner and not just her profession.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am dating a nanny but she is in school for another profession. Her being a nanny has never been an issue. In fact, I love knowing what a great mom she will be if we have children.

My DH loved this too. You're getting a woman who not only loves kids but knows how to handle them? That's a big plus if you want a family!

Being a nanny does not always translate to good mom.
If you like the person go for it, but I would say find out if they have career nanny plans or is she nannying through school.
Are you the type who wants to marry a SAHM or a mother that works?

SAHM

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Anonymous wrote:What if the nanny was a man? Would the women here be comfortable having a relationship with him?

I wouldn't, but all the male nannies I know are gay. so that wouldn't make sense in my life.
Even if he was straight I wouldn't have a relationship with him.
I'm a nanny and I hope no one wants to date me or marry me at this stage of my life.

What point are you trying to make?

That I wouldn't have a relationship with a nanny.

What point are you trying to make?

Your post was unclear.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am dating a nanny but she is in school for another profession. Her being a nanny has never been an issue. In fact, I love knowing what a great mom she will be if we have children.

My DH loved this too. You're getting a woman who not only loves kids but knows how to handle them? That's a big plus if you want a family!

Being a nanny does not always translate to good mom.
If you like the person go for it, but I would say find out if they have career nanny plans or is she nannying through school.
Are you the type who wants to marry a SAHM or a mother that works?

Anonymous wrote:I am dating a nanny but she is in school for another profession. Her being a nanny has never been an issue. In fact, I love knowing what a great mom she will be if we have children.

My DH loved this too. You're getting a woman who not only loves kids but knows how to handle them? That's a big plus if you want a family!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What if the nanny was a man? Would the women here be comfortable having a relationship with him?

I wouldn't, but all the male nannies I know are gay. so that wouldn't make sense in my life.
Even if he was straight I wouldn't have a relationship with him.
I'm a nanny and I hope no one wants to date me or marry me at this stage of my life.

What point are you trying to make?

That I wouldn't have a relationship with a nanny.

What point are you trying to make?

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What if the nanny was a man? Would the women here be comfortable having a relationship with him?

I wouldn't, but all the male nannies I know are gay. so that wouldn't make sense in my life.
Even if he was straight I wouldn't have a relationship with him.
I'm a nanny and I hope no one wants to date me or marry me at this stage of my life.

You have issues, episodes, and sagas girl. Get help!

Who knew being self aware meant there was something wrong with you?

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Anonymous wrote:What if the nanny was a man? Would the women here be comfortable having a relationship with him?

I wouldn't, but all the male nannies I know are gay. so that wouldn't make sense in my life.
Even if he was straight I wouldn't have a relationship with him.
I'm a nanny and I hope no one wants to date me or marry me at this stage of my life.

You have issues, episodes, and sagas girl. Get help!

I am dating a nanny but she is in school for another profession. Her being a nanny has never been an issue. In fact, I love knowing what a great mom she will be if we have children.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What if the nanny was a man? Would the women here be comfortable having a relationship with him?

I wouldn't, but all the male nannies I know are gay. so that wouldn't make sense in my life.
Even if he was straight I wouldn't have a relationship with him.
I'm a nanny and I hope no one wants to date me or marry me at this stage of my life.

What point are you trying to make?

Anonymous wrote:What if the nanny was a man? Would the women here be comfortable having a relationship with him?

I wouldn't, but all the male nannies I know are gay. so that wouldn't make sense in my life.
Even if he was straight I wouldn't have a relationship with him.
I'm a nanny and I hope no one wants to date me or marry me at this stage of my life.

My husband didn't have a problem with it we got married while he was in medical school. I work part time as a Montessori teacher now. My child goes to the same preschool. I think he would have had a problem if I wanted to continue working as a nanny. I worked until he finished medical school and got a Montessori education degree at the same time.