Anonymous
Post 09/22/2015 18:21     Subject: Just leaving in middle of date
How big are her breasts?
Anonymous
Post 09/21/2015 08:05     Subject: Just leaving in middle of date
Anonymous wrote:She may have been acting that way because she is nervous. Just stick it out and leave. No need to be rude. Or mean.


+1

I had one "horrible date" with a really nice woman who was friendly and pretty accomplished - a long long long dinner where we were both obviously a little awkward, nervous, etc. One of my favorite restaurants, but it seemed interminable. After that I only ever made first dates for short activities: a drink, coffee. Something which could be naturally over in <30min - you can always go long if you prefer. Unless someone is really scary, then I think it's harsh to just ditch right off. I have sat through a drink with plenty of women I knew I wasn't even remotely attracted to at first sight, long before the verbal vomit started.
Anonymous
Post 09/21/2015 03:24     Subject: Re:Just leaving in middle of date
Unless she was obviously high or drunk or wildly offensive or you felt physically threatened, I think staying for the one drink or cup of coffee (45 minutes max) is polite.
Anonymous
Post 09/20/2015 20:05     Subject: Just leaving in middle of date
She may have been acting that way because she is nervous. Just stick it out and leave. No need to be rude. Or mean.
Anonymous
Post 09/20/2015 19:50     Subject: Just leaving in middle of date
Anonymous wrote:I think you're rude. Say something about "I have another activity to get to" but stay for a half hour or so, pay for her drink. Be a gentleman.


Don't pay for her drink, she can pay for her own drinks. Dating is not your gravy train.
Anonymous
Post 09/20/2015 04:37     Subject: Just leaving in middle of date
I would usually recommend staying to converse w/the person since it can't hurt to make a new friend out of the situation at the very least.

However if she couldn't even look at you, that would be reason enough to leave & not look back. That is just weird.
Anonymous
Post 09/19/2015 22:05     Subject: Just leaving in middle of date
If she's just awkward and odd, I would stick it out for the a little while. And, there's like a 1% chance that she actually had a good reason for being wacky (she was suddenly feeling ill, just went through some expected trauma just before teh date, etc.).
Anonymous
Post 09/19/2015 21:48     Subject: Just leaving in middle of date
Anonymous wrote:That's fine. Just say, we don't seem to be gelling but I wish you the best and leave some cash for the drinks. Then go. Not wrong.



+1.
Anonymous
Post 09/19/2015 21:42     Subject: Just leaving in middle of date
No, that is rude. Stay a half hour and pay for the drinks unless you feel unsafe.