Anonymous
09/16/2015 11:15
Subject: Re:Religious beliefs and second wedding
I am even scared to book tickets...
Anonymous
09/16/2015 11:14
Subject: Re:Religious beliefs and second wedding
OP again. I want to add one more detail into the story. They were engaged last winter and he broke off the engagement. So this year they got engaged again.I know I know...
Anonymous
09/16/2015 11:11
Subject: Religious beliefs and second wedding
Anonymous wrote:There's really no point in worrying about any of this. You cannot control the outcome of any of it. Your sister's choices are her own. Your brother's choices are his own. This is all just drama for nothing.
Do what feels right to you, go and enjoy the party.
Thank you!
Anonymous
09/16/2015 11:10
Subject: Religious beliefs and second wedding
There's really no point in worrying about any of this. You cannot control the outcome of any of it. Your sister's choices are her own. Your brother's choices are his own. This is all just drama for nothing.
Do what feels right to you, go and enjoy the party.
Do what feels right to you, go and enjoy the party.
Anonymous
09/16/2015 11:07
Subject: Re:Religious beliefs and second wedding
Anonymous wrote:So am I getting this right: your brother behaved badly in his first wedding and is marrying a woman you don't like that much? What kind of wedding is it-small family and friends or big blowout?
Medium size. I personally think they should have just gone to the court, as my family needs to fly out for this thing.But that's what they want. I don't know what to do...
Anonymous
09/16/2015 11:02
Subject: Re:Religious beliefs and second wedding
So am I getting this right: your brother behaved badly in his first wedding and is marrying a woman you don't like that much? What kind of wedding is it-small family and friends or big blowout?
Anonymous
09/16/2015 10:59
Subject: Religious beliefs and second wedding
Anonymous wrote:Second and third marriages? Not going to work out.
+1,2,3.... the whole thing is a pointless exercise. Just look at the statistics. Go just to enjoy the party or don't go, the odds of a 10th anniversary are virtually null.
Anonymous
09/16/2015 10:52
Subject: Re:Religious beliefs and second wedding
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here. Well, they love each other. Should they not try? We are all very sad.
Obviously love wasn't enough for the first three marriages. I'm Team Sister.
OP here. She pretty much punishes her brother more then new SIL. We don't know what happened to her previous marriages but we do know what happened to brother's. I am not madly in love with his choice but it's his choice and we as a family should stand there for him, don't you think?
I don't know anymore.
Ideally she would support your brother but maybe she's just done with the treatment of marriage like it's a novelty. As in, if you two are still together in three years and/or have kids then my family and I will be more accepting.
She's being judgmental, but I don't blame her with what little info. I'm reading here.
They will not have children. And they have been together already 2.5 years.
Anonymous
09/16/2015 10:38
Subject: Re:Religious beliefs and second wedding
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here. Well, they love each other. Should they not try? We are all very sad.
Obviously love wasn't enough for the first three marriages. I'm Team Sister.
OP here. She pretty much punishes her brother more then new SIL. We don't know what happened to her previous marriages but we do know what happened to brother's. I am not madly in love with his choice but it's his choice and we as a family should stand there for him, don't you think?
I don't know anymore.
Ideally she would support your brother but maybe she's just done with the treatment of marriage like it's a novelty. As in, if you two are still together in three years and/or have kids then my family and I will be more accepting.
She's being judgmental, but I don't blame her with what little info. I'm reading here.
Anonymous
09/16/2015 10:25
Subject: Re:Religious beliefs and second wedding
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here. Well, they love each other. Should they not try? We are all very sad.
Obviously love wasn't enough for the first three marriages. I'm Team Sister.
OP here. She pretty much punishes her brother more then new SIL. We don't know what happened to her previous marriages but we do know what happened to brother's. I am not madly in love with his choice but it's his choice and we as a family should stand there for him, don't you think?
I don't know anymore.
Anonymous
09/16/2015 10:14
Subject: Re:Religious beliefs and second wedding
Luke 6:37
"Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven.
Team Brother
"Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven.
Team Brother
Anonymous
09/16/2015 10:12
Subject: Re:Religious beliefs and second wedding
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Well, they love each other. Should they not try? We are all very sad.
Obviously love wasn't enough for the first three marriages. I'm Team Sister.
Anonymous
09/16/2015 10:06
Subject: Re:Religious beliefs and second wedding
OP here. Well, they love each other. Should they not try? We are all very sad.
Anonymous
09/16/2015 09:06
Subject: Religious beliefs and second wedding
Anonymous wrote:Second and third marriages? Not going to work out.
Johnny Cash's second and June Carter Cash's third marriage worked out for them- 35 years until separated by death. I agree the odds aren't in their favor but it's not impossible.
Anonymous
09/16/2015 08:55
Subject: Religious beliefs and second wedding
Second and third marriages? Not going to work out.