Anonymous
08/19/2015 08:37
Subject: I am 36 and have had a crush on a pop star for 2 years
Anonymous wrote:I'm fairly certain what it is about these guys is that they are in the closet. Jeremy Renner, Nick Jonas, Taylor Lautner, Bradley Cooper. Gay gay gay. Taylor Lautner is well known in Hollywood as a Bryan Singer twink.
You're pretty catty so you'd know first hand.
Anonymous
08/19/2015 08:36
Subject: I am 36 and have had a crush on a pop star for 2 years
Jeremy Renner lusters,
I'm so happy I'm not the only one!
I'm so happy I'm not the only one!
Anonymous
08/19/2015 08:15
Subject: I am 36 and have had a crush on a pop star for 2 years
I'm fairly certain what it is about these guys is that they are in the closet. Jeremy Renner, Nick Jonas, Taylor Lautner, Bradley Cooper. Gay gay gay. Taylor Lautner is well known in Hollywood as a Bryan Singer twink.
Anonymous
08/19/2015 03:28
Subject: I am 36 and have had a crush on a pop star for 2 years
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I know a mom in my friend circle who had an intense fixation on a very young movie star. She went to therapy to sort it out. It was interfering with her entire life. She did resolve it. I would go to therapy. Apparently it's a real thing and even though it seems dumb, it can take over your life. It is probably about things you are missing in real life that you need to get a different way.
Also, it was Taylor Lautner.
Hahahaha I'm so sorry... but that's so funny, and also sad.
Can you tell us anymore details? Was she obsessed with Twilight in general or just him?
Anonymous
08/19/2015 02:57
Subject: I am 36 and have had a crush on a pop star for 2 years
I
think Harry Styles from One Direction is smokin' HOT!!!!
think Harry Styles from One Direction is smokin' HOT!!!!
Anonymous
08/19/2015 02:57
Subject: I am 36 and have had a crush on a pop star for 2 years
Anonymous wrote:I'm 45 and regularly make up stories in my head about celebrities like I'm still a teenager. The most recent one I was a photographer (IRL I only take pics on my iPhone) who lived in NYC across the hall from Benedict Cumberbatch's Model girlfriend. We became friends and he fell in love with me. LOL Had some great fantasies and DH reaped the rewards while that story was unfolding.
I see nothing wrong with having a celebrity crush as long as it's not having a negative impact on your life. Are your ignoring your spouse, kids, friends, family, job or other responsibilities? Are you spending money you don't have buying 20 different magazines every month? If not, enjoy the fantasy.
I do this too. Always have. Does not interfere with real life at all.
Anonymous
08/18/2015 23:01
Subject: I am 36 and have had a crush on a pop star for 2 years
Anonymous wrote:Are you male or female?
really, as if there was any doubt?
Anonymous
08/18/2015 22:19
Subject: I am 36 and have had a crush on a pop star for 2 years
I'm 45 and regularly make up stories in my head about celebrities like I'm still a teenager. The most recent one I was a photographer (IRL I only take pics on my iPhone) who lived in NYC across the hall from Benedict Cumberbatch's Model girlfriend. We became friends and he fell in love with me. LOL Had some great fantasies and DH reaped the rewards while that story was unfolding.
I see nothing wrong with having a celebrity crush as long as it's not having a negative impact on your life. Are your ignoring your spouse, kids, friends, family, job or other responsibilities? Are you spending money you don't have buying 20 different magazines every month? If not, enjoy the fantasy.
I see nothing wrong with having a celebrity crush as long as it's not having a negative impact on your life. Are your ignoring your spouse, kids, friends, family, job or other responsibilities? Are you spending money you don't have buying 20 different magazines every month? If not, enjoy the fantasy.
Anonymous
08/18/2015 21:47
Subject: I am 36 and have had a crush on a pop star for 2 years
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It happens. I'm still crushing on Tom Hardy.
I just don't get it with him. But then, I have a thing for Jeremy Renner.
omg me t oo and i don't know why.
Anonymous
08/18/2015 21:45
Subject: I am 36 and have had a crush on a pop star for 2 years
I am 46 years old + recently saw a picture of Nick Jonas. You know the one w/out his shirt and w/his pants down almost to his _____ !!
And I actually looked at it for a few seconds...Okay...A few minutes.
Lol.
It's a good thing I was in my living room vs. a public coffee shop.
I think it's okay though, when Nick was on "The View," Stacy London who is around my age confessed that she had a crush on him too.
But that is all it is, a crush. I would never date someone younger than all of my four kids.
And I actually looked at it for a few seconds...Okay...A few minutes.
Lol.
It's a good thing I was in my living room vs. a public coffee shop.
I think it's okay though, when Nick was on "The View," Stacy London who is around my age confessed that she had a crush on him too.
But that is all it is, a crush. I would never date someone younger than all of my four kids.
Anonymous
08/18/2015 09:49
Subject: I am 36 and have had a crush on a pop star for 2 years
Can you just put a Bieber wig on your husband and turn the lights down low?
Anonymous
08/18/2015 09:04
Subject: I am 36 and have had a crush on a pop star for 2 years
Anonymous wrote:Ask yourself what having these feelings does to support you.
I would suspect it's to inspire hope, and/or distract from disappointment or loss. Maybe real men are letting you down.
I think it's fine to have a crush as a crutch to some degree, but when it interferes with addressing the difficult emotions that might push you towards action to seek a higher level of relief and possibly reciprocated love- then it becomes a burden. Consider getting a labradoodle.
-advicebot3000
The part about the labradoodle made me snort an empanada up my nose.
Anonymous
08/18/2015 08:49
Subject: I am 36 and have had a crush on a pop star for 2 years
Ask yourself what having these feelings does to support you.
I would suspect it's to inspire hope, and/or distract from disappointment or loss. Maybe real men are letting you down.
I think it's fine to have a crush as a crutch to some degree, but when it interferes with addressing the difficult emotions that might push you towards action to seek a higher level of relief and possibly reciprocated love- then it becomes a burden. Consider getting a labradoodle.
-advicebot3000
I would suspect it's to inspire hope, and/or distract from disappointment or loss. Maybe real men are letting you down.
I think it's fine to have a crush as a crutch to some degree, but when it interferes with addressing the difficult emotions that might push you towards action to seek a higher level of relief and possibly reciprocated love- then it becomes a burden. Consider getting a labradoodle.
-advicebot3000
Anonymous
08/18/2015 08:44
Subject: I am 36 and have had a crush on a pop star for 2 years
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It happens. I'm still crushing on Tom Hardy.
I just don't get it with him. But then, I have a thing for Jeremy Renner.
Me too! There's just something about him.
Then again, I had a romantic dream last night about the guy from How I Met Your Mother. No idea what that was all about!
Anonymous
08/18/2015 08:40
Subject: I am 36 and have had a crush on a pop star for 2 years
And no, not telling who, because I'm not sharing.