just wanted to chime in that I've been doing much better dealing with my SN child--deep breaths, wine, and lots of love despite the behavior. But my ADHD husband is driving me crazy and has been, lately, incredibly difficult and unpleasant to be around!

I'm with you - my 9 y.o. ADHD kid has called me "ugly" on three occasions during the last 36 hours. I DO get in the the bathtub with a glass of wine!