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Anonymous wrote:I hope that her divorce make-over includes a change of hair color. I for one am so sick of that bleached white hair.

I think her career eclipsed his and he became Mr. Gwen Stefani. Not every man can deal with that. Agree w/ PP who pointed out that he hasn't been very relevant in a long time.

I read she stayed with that look for him, whatever that means. I hope she does reinvent herself. He's always been a major turn-off as a person. Gross vibes.

There is an eerie similarity between Gwen's look and Marilyn's look in the 80s.

Anonymous wrote:I hope that her divorce make-over includes a change of hair color. I for one am so sick of that bleached white hair.

I think her career eclipsed his and he became Mr. Gwen Stefani. Not every man can deal with that. Agree w/ PP who pointed out that he hasn't been very relevant in a long time.

I read she stayed with that look for him, whatever that means. I hope she does reinvent herself. He's always been a major turn-off as a person. Gross vibes.

I hope that her divorce make-over includes a change of hair color. I for one am so sick of that bleached white hair.

I think her career eclipsed his and he became Mr. Gwen Stefani. Not every man can deal with that. Agree w/ PP who pointed out that he hasn't been very relevant in a long time.

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Anonymous wrote:Plus Gavin rocked the marriage when he found out he had a daughter with a family friend. She was born before he was married to Gwen, but apparently he didn't know she was his until 2010-2011. I'm sure their marriage hasn't been a cakewalk.

I wouldn't hold something like that against my husband.

Except I suspect he knew all along. It wasn't some old forgotten girlfriend, it was a close family friend. He had a shitfit when the daughter tried to get a paternity test.

Also you're missing an important fact- Gavin said he wouldn't have children, didn't want them, etc. Then it turned out that he had this daughter in hiding for years while telling Gwen sorry no kids. That's why even though they've been together for over 20 years, married for almost 13 their oldest is 9. They only had kids together once Daisy (Gavin's daughter) came into the picture.

Gwen can do much better.

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Anonymous wrote:What does he do for a living nowadays? He has not been relevant in over a decade. This divorce is going to get ugly when he files for spousal support.

He filed his response when she filed the papers. It was clearly coordinated. TMZ says he is worth $35 million, so it's not like he'll be destitute after the divorce.

It is in CA. There was no prenup and it was over 10 years so the assets are divided 50/50.

Right, but it's not like he is some pauper who will be living off her money.

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Anonymous wrote:What does he do for a living nowadays? He has not been relevant in over a decade. This divorce is going to get ugly when he files for spousal support.

He filed his response when she filed the papers. It was clearly coordinated. TMZ says he is worth $35 million, so it's not like he'll be destitute after the divorce.

It is in CA. There was no prenup and it was over 10 years so the assets are divided 50/50.

Anonymous wrote:He's been cheating on her for quite a while.

Apparently with men. Gwen is many things but a man she is not.

Anonymous wrote:What does he do for a living nowadays? He has not been relevant in over a decade. This divorce is going to get ugly when he files for spousal support.

He filed his response when she filed the papers. It was clearly coordinated. TMZ says he is worth $35 million, so it's not like he'll be destitute after the divorce.

What does he do for a living nowadays? He has not been relevant in over a decade. This divorce is going to get ugly when he files for spousal support.

She seemed way more into him than the opposite. That's how the Affleck-Garner relationship blew apart, IMO.

Shelton-Lambert was surprising that it didn't last a little longer because they both went into the marriage seemingly accepting the other one was not a lifer.

Smith-Pinkett will continue because it's more like a strange business arrangement than relationship, and they're both comfortable.

He's been cheating on her for quite a while.

Tying into the thread about Elliot in the Morning, Gavin was in the studio earlier this year (March). Elliot commented this morning on how deeply Gavin spoke about Gwen and their relationship. I listened that day and also was pretty touched by Gavin's words. Can't remember them exactly, but it didn't sound like the typical Facebook BS of "My spouse is the best!!!"

I'm bummed about this news. Not bummed about Will/Jada (if it's true) or Ben/Jen or even Blake/Miranda. But this one bums me out.

Anonymous wrote:Wow. Interestingly, their boys are 9, 6, and 17 months, which isn't far off from the ages of the Affleck/Garner kids (9, 6, and 3).

I think the third child in both cases was a last ditch attempt.

Agree with the PPs.

This is a case of, 'If you haven't BTDT, you can't predict how you would feel.'

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Anonymous wrote:Plus Gavin rocked the marriage when he found out he had a daughter with a family friend. She was born before he was married to Gwen, but apparently he didn't know she was his until 2010-2011. I'm sure their marriage hasn't been a cakewalk.

I wouldn't hold something like that against my husband.

Except I suspect he knew all along. It wasn't some old forgotten girlfriend, it was a close family friend. He had a shitfit when the daughter tried to get a paternity test.

I think that's easier said than done. I wouldn't WANT to hold something like that against my husband but I would be upset. Maybe it's something primal but I find the fact that we created a person together something incredibly special and bonding. It kind of loses its magic when your husband has done that with someone else IMO.

Let us know how you feel when you're on your second marriage and your DH #2 has kids from a previous marriage.

I think she spoke honestly about what many women feel. I know several single friends who feel that way. And several married friends who have said that their husbands absolutely didn't feel the same excitement/angst as the wife because the husband had already been there. It's a primal feeling.