OP back - thank you to the PPs for some great thoughts! I'm incredibly appreciative.
I'm definitely interested in looking at a different property - how does one find DVC points aftermarket and (other than getting the Disney credit card) what would be the best way to book a hotel at a discounted rate? My husband would be thrilled if I could get us a room with a balcony just due to the nap/sleep situation of a baby & toddler.
I'll check out the touring plans and the unofficial guide as well. My biggest hesitation/question was around the resort and I think I've got some good info to go on - now to figure out a cost effective way to improve our situation
