Anonymous
Post 07/07/2015 21:25     Subject: Deal breakers?
Straight female here:

Poor personal hygiene
Dirty house - I can deal with clutter, but I can't deal with dirty grossness
Intellectually lazy
Obese
Pressures for anal sex
Bad tattoos
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2015 21:20     Subject: Deal breakers?
Metrosexual. Guys who put more effort into their appearance than I do give me the heeby-jeebies.



Anonymous
Post 07/07/2015 21:00     Subject: Re:Deal breakers?
smoker
impotent
racist
sexist
uneducated/unintelligent
won't reciprocate oral sex
insists on anal sex
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2015 20:34     Subject: Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:Smoking seems to be a huge common denominator.


Yep

It's gross and you (in general, not you) stink.
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2015 20:31     Subject: Deal breakers?
Abuser
Drugs and Alcohol
Any type of criminal activity
No job/car/place
Bad hygiene
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2015 19:51     Subject: Deal breakers?
Straight female:

Not a feminist

Argumentative/rude

Not ambitious or intelligent

Bossy
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2015 19:50     Subject: Re:Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Nickleback fan
Loves John Irving novels
Has a personal email address that references a sports team
All exes are all psycho or mean
Smoker
Uses the phrase "no drama"
Has no friends


How long have you been single?


Do you know a lot of nickleback fans?


You could probably just simplify it and say "Butt Rock Bands" and thus include Nickleback, Shinedown, Three Days Grace, Breaking Benjamin, Puddle of Mud, 3 Doors Down, etc.
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2015 19:49     Subject: Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:Drug use
Ex wife
Has kids



+ Military
Hunter/fisher

Bonus points for both parent being dead.
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2015 19:48     Subject: Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Smoking seems to be a huge common denominator.


Not surprising. Very few non-smokers will want to be involved with a smoker. Were I to hazard a guess I'd say it would be the most common deal breaker anywhere you'd ask. Who wants to kiss an ash tray? Blech.


When i was a light/social smoker I used to be so baffled by this and think "whats the big deal? Get the fuck over it." Now that I've quit I TOTALLY get it. When you arent smoking regularly (even once in a while) the smell (and taste, I can imagine) is just so nasty.
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2015 19:45     Subject: Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:Smoking seems to be a huge common denominator.


Not surprising. Very few non-smokers will want to be involved with a smoker. Were I to hazard a guess I'd say it would be the most common deal breaker anywhere you'd ask. Who wants to kiss an ash tray? Blech.
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2015 19:45     Subject: Deal breakers?
Drug use
Ex wife
Has kids
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2015 19:44     Subject: Deal breakers?
No common sense or street smarts
No empathy
No ability to apologize
Avoids tough discussions / keep the peace at all costs / swipe everything under the rug
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2015 19:44     Subject: Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:Smoking seems to be a huge common denominator.


Lucky for Barack that he locked it up with Michelle before smoking became the ultimate dealbreaker.
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2015 19:43     Subject: Re:Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Nickleback fan
Loves John Irving novels
Has a personal email address that references a sports team
All exes are all psycho or mean
Smoker
Uses the phrase "no drama"
Has no friends


How long have you been single?


Do you know a lot of nickleback fans?
Anonymous
Post 07/07/2015 19:42     Subject: Deal breakers?
Smoking seems to be a huge common denominator.