Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would be most bothered by the violation of the non-girlfriend's trust and your husband's role in that.

I agree. Does the woman know that he is sending naked photos of her to other men?

If it were me, it would really bother me, and I would mention it to my husband (and I have a good marriage). I would probably also lose some respect for the friend.

but you get that your DH's friend doesn't care about that.

And this is no different than ladies sharing dick pics of their BF with their GFs.

Anonymous wrote:I would be most bothered by the violation of the non-girlfriend's trust and your husband's role in that.

I agree. Does the woman know that he is sending naked photos of her to other men?

If it were me, it would really bother me, and I would mention it to my husband (and I have a good marriage). I would probably also lose some respect for the friend.

If a woman doesn't want her picture shared she should take care not to send it, especially to someone who only rises to the fuck buddy category.

Once it's sent it will be online forever

The human body is very beautiful! There's nothing wrong with naked pics of his friends f-buddy. Seriously, you act as if she's there, in front of him, getting naked. That might be cause for concern, as he may be inclined to try something.

wow

guy here

nothing wrong. i have friends who have shown me pics of women they are fucking, especially if its worthy of recognition because she was silly enough to send it, has a better body than first thought, or has a worse body than imagined.

its just shit talking and being a guy. the end.

you make any more of it, youll piss him off. if it makes you feel better, bring it up as a joke (and really be joking), saying you caught a glimpse of the pics in question. only do this if the pic was the last pic and you didnt have to scroll through texts cause then he'll accuse you of snooping around.

either way, let it go.

You should post them online, when will people learn that nude photos are not a good idea.

Anonymous wrote:I would be most bothered by the violation of the non-girlfriend's trust and your husband's role in that.

Eh you never know. I had a friend in my early 20s that would take naked pictures and have her boyfriend "accidentally" show them to his friends because she loved the reaction that she got from it. It was a weird game they'd play.

I would be most bothered by the violation of the non-girlfriend's trust and your husband's role in that.

Anonymous wrote:My husband would never have naked photos of other women on his phone.

He may not have them saved on his phone, but if he has a smart phone then unless he's gay odds are he just looks at porn on his phone and doesn't save anything. YouPorn and other YouTube-like porn sites are pretty phone friendly.

It's gross and, yes, it would bug me because I doubt that the woman knows that her private pictures are being shared with other guys like that. It just seems...voyeurish or something.

You could always tell him you found them, tell him you thought she was hot, too, and then jump him.

Anonymous wrote:It's possible he didn't really know how to react so just played along. But GROSS!

This.

It's the ugly man version of girlfriends sharing photos of a new hair style. GROSS, for sure. But, I would only see it as DH being polite to a friend. Actual interest wouldn't occur to me if your marriage is otherwise stable. I'd just ask him to stop.

Then again, being a forgiving wife didn't help me in my marriage. So, there's that.

I agree- DH's friend is totally gross.