Anonymous wrote:OK, this is what stands out to me: YOU will pay for the water this month? You and DH, with whom you share two kids, don't share finances?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OK, this is what stands out to me: YOU will pay for the water this month? You and DH, with whom you share two kids, don't share finances?
Don't go there, PP. I don't get it either, but some couples roll that way.
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thanks, all. This is in Fairfax county. I told DH that I will pay the water bill this month. I was with DS and his toddler brother. DS wanted to water the plants, but his brother was climbing the stairs to go back into the house. I asked DS whether he turned off the water, and he said yes. I didn't check because I was helping younger DS with the stairs, so my fault. DH is still very angry ...
Anonymous wrote:OK, this is what stands out to me: YOU will pay for the water this month? You and DH, with whom you share two kids, don't share finances?
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thanks, all. This is in Fairfax county. I told DH that I will pay the water bill this month. I was with DS and his toddler brother. DS wanted to water the plants, but his brother was climbing the stairs to go back into the house. I asked DS whether he turned off the water, and he said yes. I didn't check because I was helping younger DS with the stairs, so my fault. DH is still very angry ...
Anonymous wrote:36 hours is a long time but I leave mine on all the time and it's never all that much
Anonymous wrote:I'll assume a garden hose can spit out about 10 gallons per minute. That's 21,600 gallons in 36 hours. Arlington County charges $13.27 per 1000 gallons, so that's $286.63. Test your hose by timing how long it takes to fill a 5 gallon bucket and adjust accordingly. And check your water bill for the rates.
And is your yard or neighbor's yard flooded? That's a lot of water.
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thanks, all. This is in Fairfax county. I told DH that I will pay the water bill this month. I was with DS and his toddler brother. DS wanted to water the plants, but his brother was climbing the stairs to go back into the house. I asked DS whether he turned off the water, and he said yes. I didn't check because I was helping younger DS with the stairs, so my fault. DH is still very angry ...
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thanks, all. This is in Fairfax county. I told DH that I will pay the water bill this month. I was with DS and his toddler brother. DS wanted to water the plants, but his brother was climbing the stairs to go back into the house. I asked DS whether he turned off the water, and he said yes. I didn't check because I was helping younger DS with the stairs, so my fault. DH is still very angry ...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:P.S. Goes without saying that your DH needs to tone it down. You can't expect a 6 year-old to be the last one to check things like if external water is shut off. I think your DH or you needs to take responsibility and realize it was your job to check that everything was turned off and put away properly. At about 8/9 kids can be trusted with that, but 6? They can still have huge lapses in judgment and should be double-checked when they are in charge. That's like leaving open paint cans around a 3-year-old: not his fault, yours!
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