Same here - It was not my plan, but it has worked out for us. We met first year of college and had sex our second year.
I (woman) had never had sex. He had a one night stand, which he did not ultimately feel great about.
Once in awhile I wonder, but mostly pretty satisfied.

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Anonymous wrote:DH is my one and only, but it really wasn't a plan. It just worked out that way. He was my first serious boyfriend.

We have a great sex life. 20+ years and going strong.

Oh, and we didn't wait until we were married.

Anonymous wrote:No. I had sex with approximately 45 women before marriage, not counting pros. I wish I'd had more.

I had 12 and my wife thinks I whored around. Interesting role reversal.

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Anonymous wrote:DH is my one and only, but it really wasn't a plan. It just worked out that way. He was my first serious boyfriend.

We have a great sex life. 20+ years and going strong.

Oh, and we didn't wait until we were married.

LOL. I could have written this post, except we waited until we were married. Thankfully we both love sex,and are very open to all kinds of experimenting. So it is all good.

However, if my kids do not wait for marriage, I will be fine. I realize that DH and I were just lucky. I know TONS of people who are sexually incompatible, and found that out after marriage.

BTW - I am from a culture where virginity before marriage is/was the norm.

No. I had sex with approximately 45 women before marriage, not counting pros. I wish I'd had more.

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Anonymous wrote:Nope, I think waiting until marriage is a terrible, archaic idea.

You would be surprised how many people I know that wait for religious reasons.

Well, they tell you they are waiting..

12:50 here. This too. Back when I went to church because my crazy parents made me, all of the teens were fucking like rabbits while reciting Bible verses in front of the congregation and preaching to others about Jesus. Hypocritical nonsense.