Anonymous
05/10/2015 20:18
Subject: if your successful husband does cocaine when you have kids, talk to me about this-
I know a handful of higher level govt workers who do cocaine. It's also totally rampant in the restaurant industry here, but that's somehow less shocking than doing a line in your office with the door closed before heading out to a meeting.
Anonymous
05/10/2015 20:07
Subject: if your successful husband does cocaine when you have kids, talk to me about this-
Anonymous wrote:I just don't get it. I have never done coke. But sometimes I am hanging out with colleagues who are drinking heavily and jump from alcohol to cigarettes to pot or cocaine. (I leave before thos, but know the signs ...giddiness, secretive etc as they head off to get high) The next morning they have to get up and go to work, and do so. But I can't help but feel like that is a raw deal for wives, who are staying in with kids while their husbands do this foolishness. It's none of my business and I am not about to get involved, but I just feel bad. Is it a problem, or not really.
You leave before any of this pot, cocaine, etc happens but you "know" the signs. You do realize how stupid your statement sounds, right?
If you didn't see it you don't know whether it happened or not.
And for the record, NO I do not think that solidly successful business people engage in that kind of crap.
Anonymous
05/10/2015 19:24
Subject: Re:if your successful husband does cocaine when you have kids, talk to me about this-
Anyone who does coke has a problem
Anonymous
05/10/2015 17:47
Subject: if your successful husband does cocaine when you have kids, talk to me about this-
I thought most rock stars who are still alive today cleaned up their acts and stopped snorting coke? Must be the crowd he runs in.
I was at a kid birthday party once given by a middle school vice principal in a top ranked suburban school district. After everyone had left, she and her husband pulled out the pot smoking bong. I left. I have never smoked pot or tried drugs even recreationally, but lots of people think it is their right, whether illegal or not. And I was one of those popular trusted cool kids, so I was always at the party.
I was at a kid birthday party once given by a middle school vice principal in a top ranked suburban school district. After everyone had left, she and her husband pulled out the pot smoking bong. I left. I have never smoked pot or tried drugs even recreationally, but lots of people think it is their right, whether illegal or not. And I was one of those popular trusted cool kids, so I was always at the party.
Anonymous
05/10/2015 15:37
Subject: if your successful husband does cocaine when you have kids, talk to me about this-
Anonymous wrote:This is quite obvious.
If a man is leaving his family to go off and snort some white stuff through his nostrils, then yes, this is a problem.
And any woman who would stay with someone who did this is just plain stupid.
Know of women who have stayed with husbands who've done far, far worse!
Anonymous
05/10/2015 14:38
Subject: Re:if your successful husband does cocaine when you have kids, talk to me about this-
What is c-level?
CEOs, CFOs, COOs and CTOs are c-level.
Anonymous
05/10/2015 14:23
Subject: if your successful husband does cocaine when you have kids, talk to me about this-
I wouldn't stand for that. Divorce city.
Anonymous
05/10/2015 14:16
Subject: if your successful husband does cocaine when you have kids, talk to me about this-
Anonymous wrote:Say what you will about cocaine, but I would *definitely* divorce these nitwits who can't read and process a simple paragraph of English.
Right??
Anonymous
05/10/2015 14:04
Subject: if your successful husband does cocaine when you have kids, talk to me about this-
Say what you will about cocaine, but I would *definitely* divorce these nitwits who can't read and process a simple paragraph of English.
Anonymous
05/10/2015 13:51
Subject: if your successful husband does cocaine when you have kids, talk to me about this-
Addiction is a horrible thing to deal with. Best of luck OP - I hope yall can get it straightened out.
Anonymous
05/10/2015 13:22
Subject: if your successful husband does cocaine when you have kids, talk to me about this-
I do-- I knew a group of guys who would do it, and many continued after they became parents. However, one of them developed a serious addiction and ended up divorced and filing bankruptcy, and that sort of broke up the party.
Personally, I wouldn't stand for it from my DH. The risks of legal trouble and overdose are unacceptable, and we couldn't afford it financially. I just don't see the need-- drink a beer.
Personally, I wouldn't stand for it from my DH. The risks of legal trouble and overdose are unacceptable, and we couldn't afford it financially. I just don't see the need-- drink a beer.
Anonymous
05/10/2015 13:22
Subject: Re:if your successful husband does cocaine when you have kids, talk to me about this-
You run out of money, you neglect your spouse and kids, you do more and more, you cheat, you go through withdrawal and sometimes your heart explodes.
But ya know, as long as the druggie gets to do what they want, f everyone else.
But ya know, as long as the druggie gets to do what they want, f everyone else.
Anonymous
05/10/2015 13:04
Subject: if your successful husband does cocaine when you have kids, talk to me about this-
For =got
Anonymous
05/10/2015 13:04
Subject: if your successful husband does cocaine when you have kids, talk to me about this-
Yeah, we knew a bunch of very well to do guys that did this. They seemed to slow down once their families for going. I was very stern with DH if he were going out with them.
Anonymous
05/10/2015 12:57
Subject: if your successful husband does cocaine when you have kids, talk to me about this-
Anonymous wrote:What is c-level?
I also don't believe that many successful professionals do this. This allows pp to minimize how out of line the behavior is.
I work under 4 guys who all make between 250-400k who are recreational cocaine users. Only one can't keep it in check.