Anonymous wrote:, the other a micro penis (even hard, could not fit into a condom). The other guy was huge--6'3", giant hands and feet, maybe a 4"-4.5" penis.

You been sleeping with my ex AP ? Lol his micro penis either could fit into the condom lol

Wait, you cheated on your husband with a guy who had a micro penis? Is your husband that bad or could you just not do better?

, the other a micro penis (even hard, could not fit into a condom). The other guy was huge--6'3", giant hands and feet, maybe a 4"-4.5" penis.

You been sleeping with my ex AP ? Lol his micro penis either could fit into the condom lol

DH has small hands. I remember freaking out to my friend that I had found this great guy but sex was going to be terrible. But his size is good and he's the best sex partner I've had. Although, I've had problems with too big before, so perhaps average size is above average for me. He's also a confident person, which helps.

Anonymous wrote:He's comfortable in his own skin. Not awkward and easily embarrassed ( we all have those moments, but for some people it seems to be their default mode). He's not cocky. His touch, holding hands, kissing, etc. feels good.

+1

Smart and funny also good clues.

DH and previous FWB--both small hands and feet, bad dancers (but both musicians). DH is super shy and easily embarrassed. DH is very caring, but FWB was a bit of a selfish prick out of bed.
Both above average dick size and both great in bed.

Meanwhile--three other guys who were by far the most amazing kissers EVER--could practically make me cum just by kissing-- all horrible in bed. Two were just bad. One might have been good, but we just had different styles and needs/wants. Two had average sized hands-one was average dick size, the other a micro penis (even hard, could not fit into a condom). The other guy was huge--6'3", giant hands and feet, maybe a 4"-4.5" penis.

So, there really is no way to know if someone is good in bed.

If a guy is a really good kisser and a good dancer, odds are good that he'll be good in bed. If he's a really good kisser and a marginal dancer, he could still be good in bed. If he's a bad kisser AND a bad dancer, steer clear.

(lots of guys can't dance.)

Anonymous wrote:Ladies: How do you know if a guy will be good in bed? I mean BEFORE sleeping with him, obviously.

Ask his current wife/girlfriend.

Anonymous wrote:
A sensual confidence. Men know when they are skilled.

And skilled men don't tell, they show.

Does he hold you well while kissing, or even while sharing an umbrella or pulling out a chair? Any physical interaction will give insight. Also, do you guys click? Is there banter? Is talking to him sexy?

It would be very interesting to hear from men on this forum. How do you project your talents ahead of any actual sexy time?

Women want to know!

The way I look into your eyes and smile. I want you to have fun!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

A sensual confidence. Men know when they are skilled.

And skilled men don't tell, they show.

Does he hold you well while kissing, or even while sharing an umbrella or pulling out a chair? Any physical interaction will give insight. Also, do you guys click? Is there banter? Is talking to him sexy?

It would be very interesting to hear from men on this forum. How do you project your talents ahead of any actual sexy time?

Women want to know!

Don't project it at all, but it gets around. Women talk, keep little books with 5 stars next to your name, etc....sometimes the woman's friend will come right out and say "oh so and so says you are the best lover she has ever had." It's not something you really want out there...I like to keep it just between us.

Oh, please. After being bamboozled a couple of times by men who talk a good game, I learned. Men who imply that they are good with statements like these^^ always suck in bed.

+ 1 million

Anonymous wrote:

A sensual confidence. Men know when they are skilled.

And skilled men don't tell, they show.

Does he hold you well while kissing, or even while sharing an umbrella or pulling out a chair? Any physical interaction will give insight. Also, do you guys click? Is there banter? Is talking to him sexy?

It would be very interesting to hear from men on this forum. How do you project your talents ahead of any actual sexy time?

Women want to know!

Don't project it at all, but it gets around. Women talk, keep little books with 5 stars next to your name, etc....sometimes the woman's friend will come right out and say "oh so and so says you are the best lover she has ever had." It's not something you really want out there...I like to keep it just between us.

Oh, please. After being bamboozled a couple of times by men who talk a good game, I learned. Men who imply that they are good with statements like these^^ always suck in bed.

Anonymous wrote:

A sensual confidence. Men know when they are skilled.

And skilled men don't tell, they show.

Does he hold you well while kissing, or even while sharing an umbrella or pulling out a chair? Any physical interaction will give insight. Also, do you guys click? Is there banter? Is talking to him sexy?

It would be very interesting to hear from men on this forum. How do you project your talents ahead of any actual sexy time?

Women want to know!

Don't project it at all, but it gets around. Women talk, keep little books with 5 stars next to your name, etc....sometimes the woman's friend will come right out and say "oh so and so says you are the best lover she has ever had." It's not something you really want out there...I like to keep it just between us.

haha I take it you a five star stud?

A sensual confidence. Men know when they are skilled.

And skilled men don't tell, they show.

Does he hold you well while kissing, or even while sharing an umbrella or pulling out a chair? Any physical interaction will give insight. Also, do you guys click? Is there banter? Is talking to him sexy?

It would be very interesting to hear from men on this forum. How do you project your talents ahead of any actual sexy time?

Women want to know!

Don't project it at all, but it gets around. Women talk, keep little books with 5 stars next to your name, etc....sometimes the woman's friend will come right out and say "oh so and so says you are the best lover she has ever had." It's not something you really want out there...I like to keep it just between us.

A guy's best friend told me "He'll make you go crazy in bed" and he was telling the truth!!! He did everything, no hangups, he did it well, and he liked a little kink.

I think it depends on what you like. I tend to like passionate, aggressive and persistent men in bed, maybe not so much outside it.

Anonymous wrote:
A sensual confidence. Men know when they are skilled.

And skilled men don't tell, they show.

Does he hold you well while kissing, or even while sharing an umbrella or pulling out a chair? Any physical interaction will give insight. Also, do you guys click? Is there banter? Is talking to him sexy?

It would be very interesting to hear from men on this forum. How do you project your talents ahead of any actual sexy time?

Women want to know!

No, they do not! Men are a deluded bunch. I had a guy tell me his tongue could set any woman on fire. He went down on me and I actually fell asleep as he was doing so. He was that lame. I really think that women often tell me what they want to hear and many men are too stupid to know that they are being patronized. I have never met a man who thinks he is bad in bed and yet most men are lame as hell in bed.

A sensual confidence. Men know when they are skilled.

And skilled men don't tell, they show.

Does he hold you well while kissing, or even while sharing an umbrella or pulling out a chair? Any physical interaction will give insight. Also, do you guys click? Is there banter? Is talking to him sexy?

It would be very interesting to hear from men on this forum. How do you project your talents ahead of any actual sexy time?

Women want to know!