Anonymous wrote:OP here--thank you for your help and well wishes!
I like the Hemnes, but am worried about getting it home and assembling it--don't really have enough time to do it myself. The Haverty's link looks good but they don't sell it any more.
>>>Let us know your style and budget and we can send you links for this.
If I could keep it under $400 that would be great; cheaper the better! I have an eclectic style--some antiques, some more modern.....
I still reeeeeeally don't think you need a bed as far as headboard/footboard/frame goes.
If $400 is your budget, spend that on linens:
sheet set (about $40-$50)
blanket (you probably already have one)
duvet and comforter ($200 total if you need a comforter insert and duvet cover)
bed skirt ($39)
Try West Elm:
http://www.westelm.com/shop/bedding/?cm_type=gnav
You can get a mattress + box springs + metal frame for ~$300 - $400.
If $400 is your total budget, you can probably keep to that with a very inexpensive mattress set, and linens and bedding from Target + what you already have laying around (Target makes perfectly fine stuff).