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Anonymous wrote:Wow.I thought this was about being in love with more than 30 women.

Me too!

Me 3.

Well, my mom got remarried at age 57. Her husband finds her attractive. He's also filthy rich so he could have easily married a woman half her age.

Since when does being in your thirties make you"older"? What there hell. My DH fell in love with me at 35. I'm now 43 and he was telling me how much he loves me just this morning. OP you're either warped or you're 20 years old.

Anonymous wrote:I don't think 30 is very old and yes, women of all ages can still retain their beauty if they care for themselves.

J Lo is going to be 46 this summer and I am quite sure she has no problem having suitors at this stage in her life.

Remember that beauty will always be in the eye of the beholder.

I don't find her attractive at all but she is a celebrity so someone is going to want to date her. And who is to says a woman in her forties is not attractive? There is a woman in one of my classes who is over 40 - not a model or anything but cute, intelligent, and confident - sounds good to me!

Anonymous wrote:Since a lot of romantic love is started because of being sexually attracted to a girl's physical form, is it less likely to fall in love with an older woman? Once youthful looks have faded, can a woman hope to attract a lover at all?

I have to know what country you are from. No way are you American.

I don't think 30 is very old and yes, women of all ages can still retain their beauty if they care for themselves.

J Lo is going to be 46 this summer and I am quite sure she has no problem having suitors at this stage in her life.

Remember that beauty will always be in the eye of the beholder.

Anonymous wrote:Since a lot of romantic love is started because of being sexually attracted to a girl's physical form, is it less likely to fall in love with an older woman? Once youthful looks have faded, can a woman hope to attract a lover at all?

Your premise is wrong... Romantic lust is about the desire to F*** someone. But Love is about the intellectual connection with the woman. I am 51. I could not imagine dating anyone under 30...we would have nothing in common...no real connection in life experiences. Heck, under 40 would be problematic. I could imagine F*****g them, but that is me being a dirty old man. Heck, for the under 30 crowd, they were not even alive when Riggo scored the go ahead touchdown in in 1983 Superbowl (on 4th and 1)...

If someone thought a 31 year old was too old to date or marry, he wouldn't be much of a catch. He'd bail as soon as he found a 20 something that would take him.

OP, you need some therapy. Your thinking is very distorted.

I thought this thread was about falling in love with more than 30 women. Yeah, I could definitely do that. As long as none of them were over 30. Yuck!

Definitely not. Not even over 20. Really the sweet spot is 18, and that's barely making it. Around 19, you're done.

Anonymous wrote:Since a lot of romantic love is started because of being sexually attracted to a girl's physical form, is it less likely to fall in love with an older woman? Once youthful looks have faded, can a woman hope to attract a lover at all?

You are beyond stupid.

Anonymous wrote:Since a lot of romantic love is started because of being sexually attracted to a girl's physical form, is it less likely to fall in love with an older woman? Once youthful looks have faded, can a woman hope to attract a lover at all?

My AP is over 50 and I am VERY attracted to her. Do sell yourself short.

Many people fall in love at work and it's due to proximity and personal interaction.