Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yep, you convinced me, I am super concerned that my August child who is 2 weeks older than some "on-time" children will have a horrible outcome in life. Worry about your own child and allow parents to make the right decision for their own child.
+1
Can you believe someone is loony enough to "worry" about kids who start school later? Unbelievable.
Anonymous wrote:Sixteen years ago, the kids who were old for age were the problem kids who flunked 3rd, or who had such serious academic, behavioral, or immaturity issues that holding them back was an obvious choice.
Those are the same kids getting redshirted today, mixed in with the upper and middle class kids whose parents are giving them every advantage.
Anonymous wrote:More and more research shows the negative outcome of red shirting. Bottom line, parents coddle too much, the kids don't learn to make it in the real world and they don't do well in the long run. Sure they may be bigger and stronger in grade school but kids need to be challenged. Life is too easy early on and then they simply fall apart.
Anonymous wrote:Yep, you convinced me, I am super concerned that my August child who is 2 weeks older than some "on-time" children will have a horrible outcome in life. Worry about your own child and allow parents to make the right decision for their own child.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:More and more research shows the negative outcome of red shirting. Bottom line, parents coddle too much, the kids don't learn to make it in the real world and they don't do well in the long run. Sure they may be bigger and stronger in grade school but kids need to be challenged. Life is too easy early on and then they simply fall apart.
Hey, thanks for settling this long-running debate by making up a shit-ton of facts!
You're welcome and not made up.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:More and more research shows the negative outcome of red shirting. Bottom line, parents coddle too much, the kids don't learn to make it in the real world and they don't do well in the long run. Sure they may be bigger and stronger in grade school but kids need to be challenged. Life is too easy early on and then they simply fall apart.
Hey, thanks for settling this long-running debate by making up a shit-ton of facts!
You're welcome and not made up.
Anonymous wrote:More and more research shows the negative outcome of red shirting. Bottom line, parents coddle too much, the kids don't learn to make it in the real world and they don't do well in the long run. Sure they may be bigger and stronger in grade school but kids need to be challenged. Life is too easy early on and then they simply fall apart.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:More and more research shows the negative outcome of red shirting. Bottom line, parents coddle too much, the kids don't learn to make it in the real world and they don't do well in the long run. Sure they may be bigger and stronger in grade school but kids need to be challenged. Life is too easy early on and then they simply fall apart.
Hey, thanks for settling this long-running debate by making up a shit-ton of facts!
Anonymous wrote:More and more research shows the negative outcome of red shirting. Bottom line, parents coddle too much, the kids don't learn to make it in the real world and they don't do well in the long run. Sure they may be bigger and stronger in grade school but kids need to be challenged. Life is too easy early on and then they simply fall apart.
Anonymous wrote:Away at college is more appropriate for most 19yr old men - rather than being in high school.
They are ready for more autonomy/adventure, or you'll see problems with authority.
Anonymous wrote:From the NYT article:
"For most children, that context is the classroom. Disadvantaged children have the most to lose from delayed access to school. For low-income children, every month of additional schooling closes one-tenth of the gap between them and more advantaged students. Even without redshirting, a national trend is afoot to move back the cutoff birthdays for the start of school. Since the early 1970s, the date has shifted by an average of six weeks, to about Oct. 14 from about Nov. 25. This has the effect of making children who would have been the youngest in one grade the oldest in the next-lower grade; it hurts children from low-income families the most"
This is very different from a kid who comes from an advantaged home.
More and more research shows the negative outcome of red shirting. Bottom line, parents coddle too much, the kids don't learn to make it in the real world and they don't do well in the long run. Sure they may be bigger and stronger in grade school but kids need to be challenged. Life is too easy early on and then they simply fall apart.