Mayflower or the Mandarien?
Got any spg points? Westins are great. And if you tell a women check-in person this I'm pretty sure they'll hook you up at any hotel in the world.

For the noise, if you aren't doing this already, have a fan on the night stand next to you going. Find a nice and loud one. Or buy a white noise machine.

My DH snores like a maniac. It had gotten to the point that I was waiting till he fell asleep then I would just go lay on the couch. I understand know why husbands and wives used to have separate sleeping quarters. My DH finally did a sleep study and got a c-pap which does help a lot. I found myself fantasizing about the exact same thing OP. I still might do it one day soon.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My friend's husband makes her do this three times a year, doesn't ask for reciprocal because after all she is (and we all are) the default caregiver. My husband never did this. We are divorcing; coincidence?

I wonder if she takes a lover on those trips.

NP here. My DH has offered a hotel night a couple of times ans I have never taken him Up on it unfortunately. Frankly, I am too tired and busy to contemplate a lover. A quiet dinner, some wine, a bad TV movie or a book, and a night of complete sleep... Sounds like geaven.
I think the next time DH offers I will agree!

We have an 4 young kids including triplets. my DW's BD last year I booked her a hotel room and a day spa package for the next day. Didn't ask her, just told her after it was done and paid for with no refund possible. Got a baby sitter, took her to dinner and then plan was to just drop her at hotel w a goodnight kiss. But, she asked me to come upstairs lol. I gave (and got) some good lovin and went home. Picked her up around 2 the next day. She loved it but never would have asked for it or planned something like that for herself. She is awesome and deserved it

Ritz Carlton for me, with an outdoor pool so I can swim under the stars and the moonlight.

do it!

Separate bedrooms. Saved my sanity.

Good luck.

What about sleeping on the couch periodically? Ladies we really need to do something about this snoring thing. A doctor thought I had narcolepsy due to my daytime tiredness. I think it's just my husbands snoring. Drives me crazy. Starting a new thread in health right now.

Anonymous wrote:I'm tired. I can't sleep well next to my spouse and I have to wake early because of kids. I want to be left alone. I want to order take out of whatever sort I want, and get a bottle of wine, and curl up on a comfy bed and watch an overpriced movie on pay per view. I want to wake up whenever I get around to it, then go have a warm breakfast that involves things like runny yolks and hollandaise sauce. I want to get AWAY.

Super selfish? Reasonable? I'm just so tired and can't stand the idea of another night next to my loud, sleep-destroying spouse.

I live this every single day at home and I LOVE it ! My husband never wakes me up even if I sleep until the afternoon.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My friend's husband makes her do this three times a year, doesn't ask for reciprocal because after all she is (and we all are) the default caregiver. My husband never did this. We are divorcing; coincidence?

I wonder if she takes a lover on those trips.

NP here. My DH has offered a hotel night a couple of times ans I have never taken him Up on it unfortunately. Frankly, I am too tired and busy to contemplate a lover. A quiet dinner, some wine, a bad TV movie or a book, and a night of complete sleep... Sounds like geaven.
I think the next time DH offers I will agree!

Order room service and, if you like what you see, have him come back after his shift...

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My friend's husband makes her do this three times a year, doesn't ask for reciprocal because after all she is (and we all are) the default caregiver. My husband never did this. We are divorcing; coincidence?

I wonder if she takes a lover on those trips.

NP here. My DH has offered a hotel night a couple of times ans I have never taken him Up on it unfortunately. Frankly, I am too tired and busy to contemplate a lover. A quiet dinner, some wine, a bad TV movie or a book, and a night of complete sleep... Sounds like geaven.
I think the next time DH offers I will agree!

Hotels scare me. I worry about bed bugs

I love going to movies by myself! Especially kind of silly movies. Can't wait for that Insurgent movie to come out to go enjoy alone.

I totally understand this. I have always liked my solitude, and as a married woman with two children, solitude is a rare occurrence. My friends have always had to drag me to do things, I rather have a nice dinner with 1-4 friends than a loud bar night. In college sometimes I would go to the movies alone, just to escape the never ending noise of my 4 roommate household. When I told my husband about that, he was flabbergasted: "Didn't you feel like a looser alone at the movies?." Nope, it felt wonderful, just perfect LOL

Anonymous wrote:My friend's husband makes her do this three times a year, doesn't ask for reciprocal because after all she is (and we all are) the default caregiver. My husband never did this. We are divorcing; coincidence?

I wonder if she takes a lover on those trips.