Anonymous wrote:You shouldn't have to OP.
It's a two-way street and unless you get the attention, respect and love that you deserve...Then how are you expected to offer it to someone else?
While i agree, Approaching it that way will only lead to confrontation. Unless it becomes "their problem" together, even though it looks like she has poor coping skills, that will guarantee only fighting. It tends to back people in corners and leads to no solutions. If he wants to divorce, that's exactly the dig in position he should take.