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No tips on how to go about this. But it is funny because oftentimes it is the husband who has a fantasy that his wife would have a lesbian romp but the wife would never go for it. Now if you could just convince your DH.

I think men have that fantasy when they think it's something their wife doesnt want to do and thus she is doing it for his pleasure only and it is proof of how much she cares for him.

Now, when the woman is wanting it for herself[i], the guy gets intimidated real quick!!!!

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Anonymous wrote:My husband wants booty sex with another man. I'm not jealous or uptight but I would like some pearls to clutch.

What is this pearl clutching stuff? I'm totally not getting what that means.

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Anonymous wrote:My husband wants booty sex with another man. I'm not jealous or uptight but I would like some pearls to clutch.

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Anonymous wrote:Talk to your spouse, you should be able to have a conversation about this. You may be surprised how he feels about it. Would you be mad if say, he fired back he had the same feelings about another man?

I would have huge issues with that, but that's why I asked, is there a double standard? For some reason him thinking about getting with a man seems more threatening...and more of a deal breaker for me.

Yea, then it would be a double standard...

Anonymous wrote:My husband wants booty sex with another man. I'm not jealous or uptight but I would like some pearls to clutch.

What is this pearl clutching stuff? I'm totally not getting what that means.

My husband wants booty sex with another man. I'm not jealous or uptight but I would like some pearls to clutch.

I am in the same boat. I think my husband would be okay with one time experience.

Maybe you can talk to your husband about it and ask him to watch but not touch? This way he will not feel excluded.

Anonymous wrote:Talk to your spouse, you should be able to have a conversation about this. You may be surprised how he feels about it. Would you be mad if say, he fired back he had the same feelings about another man?

I would have huge issues with that, but that's why I asked, is there a double standard? For some reason him thinking about getting with a man seems more threatening...and more of a deal breaker for me.

Talk to your spouse, you should be able to have a conversation about this. You may be surprised how he feels about it. Would you be mad if say, he fired back he had the same feelings about another man?

I want my wife to be honest with me. Not sure how I'd respond, but if she told me she wants a sexual experience with a woman I wouldn't hold it against her.

Anonymous wrote:I dont see why this goes in explicit. The implication that nonhetero sex is freaky is really offensive.

+1

If my wife got with a woman, I'd probably be mad - mostly because she didn't ask me to join in. But without me, I'd look at it as cheating.

Not sure there's a right answer here. If it were me, I'd probably go ahead and experiment. That is, if you won't feel guilty about it. If your guilt would be harder than you not knowing what it's like to be with a woman, then that answers your question there too.

Anonymous wrote:Ask him to join in or watch. Problem solved.

Not for Ross Geller.