Anonymous wrote:My private sector offers have all been no more than 72 hours and most were 48 hours. I'm finding some of this conversation mind-blowing.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I had a govt atty offer at a similar agency and asked for one week to accept -- got the offer Friday at 6 pm and wanted as long as possible bc I was in a 3rd round with an employer I liked better. They were pissed but begrudgingly said I had until next Friday. So next Friday, I'm ready to call them at 10 am and before I can do that I get a v/m with an HR person SCREAMING at me that I had enough time. So of course I call back, say yes, and let them do a background check only to re neg later. They encourage this kind of bad behavior.
What? You had a bad experience with HR so you acted extremely unprofessionally in return?
No -- I'm saying that saying yes and letting them run a background check and figure out start dates etc. bought me WEEKS. That was enough time for the preferred offer to come through. If they had just acted like normal employers and said - get back to us in 2 weeks, I wouldn't have had to do that; I felt bad (sort of but not really after HR's bitchy-ness), but they create these situations by refusing to understand the reality that their job isn't the only job on earth and maybe someone is interviewing someplace else too.
One week to consider an offer is perfectly "normal" in the private sector.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I had a govt atty offer at a similar agency and asked for one week to accept -- got the offer Friday at 6 pm and wanted as long as possible bc I was in a 3rd round with an employer I liked better. They were pissed but begrudgingly said I had until next Friday. So next Friday, I'm ready to call them at 10 am and before I can do that I get a v/m with an HR person SCREAMING at me that I had enough time. So of course I call back, say yes, and let them do a background check only to re neg later. They encourage this kind of bad behavior.
What? You had a bad experience with HR so you acted extremely unprofessionally in return?
No -- I'm saying that saying yes and letting them run a background check and figure out start dates etc. bought me WEEKS. That was enough time for the preferred offer to come through. If they had just acted like normal employers and said - get back to us in 2 weeks, I wouldn't have had to do that; I felt bad (sort of but not really after HR's bitchy-ness), but they create these situations by refusing to understand the reality that their job isn't the only job on earth and maybe someone is interviewing someplace else too.
One week to consider an offer is perfectly "normal" in the private sector.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I had a govt atty offer at a similar agency and asked for one week to accept -- got the offer Friday at 6 pm and wanted as long as possible bc I was in a 3rd round with an employer I liked better. They were pissed but begrudgingly said I had until next Friday. So next Friday, I'm ready to call them at 10 am and before I can do that I get a v/m with an HR person SCREAMING at me that I had enough time. So of course I call back, say yes, and let them do a background check only to re neg later. They encourage this kind of bad behavior.
What? You had a bad experience with HR so you acted extremely unprofessionally in return?
No -- I'm saying that saying yes and letting them run a background check and figure out start dates etc. bought me WEEKS. That was enough time for the preferred offer to come through. If they had just acted like normal employers and said - get back to us in 2 weeks, I wouldn't have had to do that; I felt bad (sort of but not really after HR's bitchy-ness), but they create these situations by refusing to understand the reality that their job isn't the only job on earth and maybe someone is interviewing someplace else too.
Anonymous wrote:I once asked for a week (after a six month hiring process) and after three days they called me and said they were withdrawing the offer.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I had a govt atty offer at a similar agency and asked for one week to accept -- got the offer Friday at 6 pm and wanted as long as possible bc I was in a 3rd round with an employer I liked better. They were pissed but begrudgingly said I had until next Friday. So next Friday, I'm ready to call them at 10 am and before I can do that I get a v/m with an HR person SCREAMING at me that I had enough time. So of course I call back, say yes, and let them do a background check only to re neg later. They encourage this kind of bad behavior.
What? You had a bad experience with HR so you acted extremely unprofessionally in return?
Anonymous wrote:Honestly, given my experience having an offer revoked, if you think you want it, I'd take it, push the start date back as far as they are ok with, and renee if you change your mind.