Anonymous wrote:It depends on your graduate program and target degree.
It depends on your undergraduate degree and your grades.
It depends on your cash flow.
It depends on how many kids you have and when you are planning on having the next or first one.
It depends on where your spouse is in their career.
It depends on how mature you are and how much drive you have.
Anonymous wrote:I blew through school K-JD and my wife took ~7 years off between before beginning a PhD. I actually think we probably should have swapped lives because as a professor we hit the worst of the worst times in terms of having kids and raising small kids. Oddly my career mellowed right around the time we began having kids (left biglaw to go in house). I am actually the primary parent and do the bulk of the heaving lifting but I think that's because I also spent 10 years working before slowing down my career. My wife doesn't have the luxury, sadly.
I honestly think, for women, getting trained and getting into the market as soon as possible matters more because of biology. If you want kids in your early to mid 30's, you kind of need to be working and establishing yourself in your late 20's. Otherwise, you are going to be in the same pickle as my DW (who is admittedly handling everything incredibly well).
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My dh and I have been discussing which would be better - I always thought it's smarter to get the graduate degree out of the way after college, before career, marriage, kids, etc. make returning to school much more difficult. DH says it's better to get a few years of work experience first, then return either P/T or F/T for graduate degree. Any thoughts?
Agree with your DH. It's even better if your employer pays for your graduate degree.
Pro tip: Unless it's a professional degree (Law, MBA, medicine), if you have to pay tuition for graduate school, you don't belong in graduate school.
Teachers in VA have to have to go to grad school before they can work.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My dh and I have been discussing which would be better - I always thought it's smarter to get the graduate degree out of the way after college, before career, marriage, kids, etc. make returning to school much more difficult. DH says it's better to get a few years of work experience first, then return either P/T or F/T for graduate degree. Any thoughts?
Agree with your DH. It's even better if your employer pays for your graduate degree.
Pro tip: Unless it's a professional degree (Law, MBA, medicine), if you have to pay tuition for graduate school, you don't belong in graduate school.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Go to grad school straight off. Much harder to go back once you have a life.
This.
Anonymous wrote:Go to grad school straight off. Much harder to go back once you have a life.
Anonymous wrote:Top MBA programs require job experience first. Law students with some work experience are more attractive job candidates. So for those two work experience is a good idea.