Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here- I've met and exceeded all billing hours so there is no way this was a reflection of poor performance on my part. There are only two other associates at the firm, both male and neither of whom I feel would feel comfortable discussing bonuses with.
Sounds like your threshold for extraordinary work is at the level that is rewarded by a bonus. Status quo will keep your job, above and beyond will get you a bonus or raise. Your attitude of entitlement is shocking.
+10000000000
Anonymous wrote:who expects a bonus?
Anonymous wrote:2 months is a long time and I would think the other two lawyers in your firm had to work extra hard to make up for you not being there. If I was your boss, I would divide your bonus between the other two workers.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here- I've met and exceeded all billing hours so there is no way this was a reflection of poor performance on my part. There are only two other associates at the firm, both male and neither of whom I feel would feel comfortable discussing bonuses with.
Sounds like your threshold for extraordinary work is at the level that is rewarded by a bonus. Status quo will keep your job, above and beyond will get you a bonus or raise. Your attitude of entitlement is shocking.
Okay, so you don't KNOW that the other associates got a bonus. You're just assuming based on past years. If you're not comfortable asking them, then you have to ask your boss.
Don't make it about the pregnancy. Make it about clarifying if there were bonuses last year. Something like:
"Hey Jim, I was just going through my tax paperwork and was trying to reconcile a few items. Did the firm issue bonuses last year? If so, when will they be paid out? I haven't seen mine come across but want to make sure I didn't miss it."
He'll either say "Oh, we didn't do bonuses because of X" or he might say something vague like, "No, you didn't miss it."
At that point, start questioning. You're an attorney, you can sort this out. Something like, "Oh, no one got bonuses this past year?" You do need to get to the heart of if only you were excluded, but you need to do it in a way that doesn't automatically assume they excluded you because of the time off.
From there you can decide what you want to do. But don't go in assuming the worst - that puts everyone on the defensive.
Anonymous wrote:Okay, so you don't KNOW that the other associates got a bonus. You're just assuming based on past years. If you're not comfortable asking them, then you have to ask your boss.
Don't make it about the pregnancy. Make it about clarifying if there were bonuses last year. Something like:
"Hey Jim, I was just going through my tax paperwork and was trying to reconcile a few items. Did the firm issue bonuses last year? If so, when will they be paid out? I haven't seen mine come across but want to make sure I didn't miss it."
He'll either say "Oh, we didn't do bonuses because of X" or he might say something vague like, "No, you didn't miss it."
At that point, start questioning. You're an attorney, you can sort this out. Something like, "Oh, no one got bonuses this past year?" You do need to get to the heart of if only you were excluded, but you need to do it in a way that doesn't automatically assume they excluded you because of the time off.
From there you can decide what you want to do. But don't go in assuming the worst - that puts everyone on the defensive.