Anonymous wrote:Dad here and I say that you're fucking weak if you can't get it up for your big-breasted, glowing, horny wife.

Anonymous wrote:Dad here and I say that you're fucking weak if you can't get it up for your big-breasted, glowing, horny wife.

Anonymous wrote:Dad here and I say that you're fucking weak if you can't get it up for your big-breasted, glowing, horny wife.

Anonymous wrote:Once I let my husband know that I wasn't going to barf on him, it didn't hurt and I was up for it we had a grand old time. Best sex of our lives.

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Anonymous wrote:Men will never admit it, because we don't want to criticized, but pregnant bodies are just not particularly sexy to men (although a minority of men fetishize it).

It makes evolutionary sense, if you think about it. Men are generally attracted to whatever leads to successful reproduction. Sleeping with pregnant women is guaranteed to not lead to reproduction, and most men are not into it.

That doesn't excuse callously rejecting your pregnant, horny wife, but if you find that your DH isn't initiating as much, don't hold it against him. He also might be trying to not pressure or hurt you if you're very pregnant.

Frankly, it is a total turn off!

Anonymous wrote:DH likes thin slender women with big boobs.

I have the big boobs, but my slender waist is now taken over by my uterus at 28 weeks.

He blames it on the cliche excuse of not wanting to hurt the baby, but we both know the bump is weird to him and just is not into it.

Anonymous wrote:Men will never admit it, because we don't want to criticized, but pregnant bodies are just not particularly sexy to men (although a minority of men fetishize it).

It makes evolutionary sense, if you think about it. Men are generally attracted to whatever leads to successful reproduction. Sleeping with pregnant women is guaranteed to not lead to reproduction, and most men are not into it.

That doesn't excuse callously rejecting your pregnant, horny wife, but if you find that your DH isn't initiating as much, don't hold it against him. He also might be trying to not pressure or hurt you if you're very pregnant.

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Anonymous wrote:PP@11:36 here.

Yes, a lot of men cheat on their pregnant wives, and it does seem over the top horrible (you did this to her - made her this way - how can you then cheat on her for that!) but really: I do not find it weird that spouses (husbands or wives) who are cut off from a sex life wind up cheating. Better to cheat than to leave! If I wanted sexual celibacy, I would have entered a cult/religious order, and "married jesus" and not gotten married to a woman. I am not so judgemental about affairs.

I'm not cheating myself because: 1) I don't want to look in the mirror and see myself that way and 2) I expect this to be temporary. I can pull a stint if I know there is an end in site in the future. If it seemed indefinite, I'd probably already be cheating. I feel shame about "you couldn't make do for a year or two?" but I would not feel shame about "hey, we're not and never will, so I found some elsewhere".

re: shopping for lingerie, candles, etc. Look, I'd be happy if we were sleeping in the same bed again. Right now I'm working on making the bed comfortable enough for her to sleep in, so she's not propped up in a bunch of pillows in a recliner in the TV room. I bought her a couple of sexy pregnancy nighties for Christmas...and she liked them, but no, this is way past that.

Right now I'm focussing on pampering my wife while she's enduring this very uncomfortable pregnancy.

Just get your action elsewhere. No one would blame you for it - other than your wife if she found out. But you can't be expected to remain celibate because she is pregnant.