Anonymous wrote:Read odd girl out it covers this behavior in a lot of depth. Essentially there are a couple risks here:
Your daughter learns this is the way of friendships and adopts mean girl behavior
Your daughter learns that friendship is precarious and feels bound by the norms of of the dominant mean girl
Your daughter learns to be suspicious of other girls and carries that into adulthood.
Long and short confront it, talk to your daughter about friendship and pressures of friendship and why it is valuable and how other girls can be manipulative.