I say serious damage has already been made here because by giving out his phone no.# to different girls he basically is already cheating on you. I couldn't remain married to someone who was giving out his contact info to other women. It would signify to me that his heart and soul no longer were mine. And that would mean neither was he.

So I hate to tell you this OP, but as of now, there is no more "us."

It is over.

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If you really want to appear like a new poster, OP, you should not use the same words and context as in the previous post. "Girls" and "phone numbers" and "husband in a mid-life crisis', etc.

Or if you have not found enough helpful responses in the previous post, then you should just be honest and say so.

This. Anything else looks trollish.

Work on enlarging your thigh gap. Men really go for that.