Anonymous wrote:Do married adults play these games? If I say something to DH there is no hidden meaning.
+1
I did this shit when I was a teenager with my first couple boyfriends.
As a married woman, I don't play games. I say what I mean and DH does the same. We are doing no gifts this year for each other (similar big year to OP, plus a newborn) and I know we both meant it.
OP, how about as a gift you get a gift certificate for some couples counseling if your wife is the type that thinks this is okay in an adult relationship!