Anonymous wrote:Three choices: Condoms, Vasectomy, Rosie Palm and her five sisters
Anonymous wrote:It is his body, no?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It is his body, no?
Yes, it is. He shouldn't be pressured into getting a vasectomy if he doesn't want one. DH had a vasectomy and he had some weird grief issues afterwards over the loss of his fertility. He wasn't planning on using it again, but he was still sad when it was gone. That's not an uncommon response. Being able to make a baby (even if you aren't going to do it) is key to a lot of people's sexuality and gender identity.
Plus, I don't think that was a minor surgery. He was sore and swollen for several days.
Well your husband is a giant pussy.
How were the births of your children? Enjoyable?
They were pretty intense, but it was my choice.
I don't think people (husband or wife) should be pressured to get surgical alterations on their bodies for the other partner's convenience.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It is his body, no?
Yes, it is. He shouldn't be pressured into getting a vasectomy if he doesn't want one. DH had a vasectomy and he had some weird grief issues afterwards over the loss of his fertility. He wasn't planning on using it again, but he was still sad when it was gone. That's not an uncommon response. Being able to make a baby (even if you aren't going to do it) is key to a lot of people's sexuality and gender identity.
Plus, I don't think that was a minor surgery. He was sore and swollen for several days.
Well your husband is a giant pussy.
How were the births of your children? Enjoyable?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If it is what you want, you do the surgery.
Why should she? Why is she solely responsible for the family birth control???
This (very common) set up pisses me off to no end.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It is his body, no?
Yes, it is. He shouldn't be pressured into getting a vasectomy if he doesn't want one. DH had a vasectomy and he had some weird grief issues afterwards over the loss of his fertility. He wasn't planning on using it again, but he was still sad when it was gone. That's not an uncommon response. Being able to make a baby (even if you aren't going to do it) is key to a lot of people's sexuality and gender identity.
Plus, I don't think that was a minor surgery. He was sore and swollen for several days.
So who should be the responsible party then, PP? Always the woman?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It is his body, no?
Yes, it is. He shouldn't be pressured into getting a vasectomy if he doesn't want one. DH had a vasectomy and he had some weird grief issues afterwards over the loss of his fertility. He wasn't planning on using it again, but he was still sad when it was gone. That's not an uncommon response. Being able to make a baby (even if you aren't going to do it) is key to a lot of people's sexuality and gender identity.
Plus, I don't think that was a minor surgery. He was sore and swollen for several days.
Well your husband is a giant pussy.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It is his body, no?
Yes, it is. He shouldn't be pressured into getting a vasectomy if he doesn't want one. DH had a vasectomy and he had some weird grief issues afterwards over the loss of his fertility. He wasn't planning on using it again, but he was still sad when it was gone. That's not an uncommon response. Being able to make a baby (even if you aren't going to do it) is key to a lot of people's sexuality and gender identity.
Plus, I don't think that was a minor surgery. He was sore and swollen for several days.
MikeL wrote:Anonymous wrote:It is his body, no?
Yes, it is. But he puts part of his body into hers when they have sex and it has the potential to start life in her body.
Not a good argument you're trying to make here.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It is his body, no?
Yes, it is. He shouldn't be pressured into getting a vasectomy if he doesn't want one. DH had a vasectomy and he had some weird grief issues afterwards over the loss of his fertility. He wasn't planning on using it again, but he was still sad when it was gone. That's not an uncommon response. Being able to make a baby (even if you aren't going to do it) is key to a lot of people's sexuality and gender identity.
Plus, I don't think that was a minor surgery. He was sore and swollen for several days.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It is his body, no?
Yes, it is. He shouldn't be pressured into getting a vasectomy if he doesn't want one. DH had a vasectomy and he had some weird grief issues afterwards over the loss of his fertility. He wasn't planning on using it again, but he was still sad when it was gone. That's not an uncommon response. Being able to make a baby (even if you aren't going to do it) is key to a lot of people's sexuality and gender identity.
Plus, I don't think that was a minor surgery. He was sore and swollen for several days.
Anonymous wrote:It is his body, no?
Anonymous wrote:It is his body, no?