Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thank the feminist for screaming rape all the time for softening men to the point where they don't want to be accused of being misogynistic.

Yup, it's all feminists fault. GTFO of here.

California adopted a "yes means yes" standard where consent has to be explicit -- lack of protest or resistance is insufficient. No explicit yes and you're a rapist. For my part, I don't blame the feminists so much as I blame the rapists. But, in any event, the good guys have been trained to wait for bright and clear "go ahead" signals.

Indeed.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thank the feminist for screaming rape all the time for softening men to the point where they don't want to be accused of being misogynistic.

Yup, it's all feminists fault. GTFO of here.

California adopted a "yes means yes" standard where consent has to be explicit -- lack of protest or resistance is insufficient. No explicit yes and you're a rapist. For my part, I don't blame the feminists so much as I blame the rapists. But, in any event, the good guys have been trained to wait for bright and clear "go ahead" signals.

Right here. This California law, needed as it may be, is more and more of a "if she didn't say YES to you grabbing her face and kissing it, it's sexual assault, even if not downright rape."

Again. I get the need to prevent rape, but these laws and the insane women who we abuse them kind of keep men waiting....

Want him to grab your face regularly and kiss it, grab his cock regularly and suck it. I think the tone will be set.

Anonymous wrote:Thank the feminist for screaming rape all the time for softening men to the point where they don't want to be accused of being misogynistic.

This is true and it's not meant to be a stab at rape, but at women whom have feminized men and now complain their men are femine (and cheat with savages).

Only an alpha woman gets an alpha man to act over extended time.

The alpha/beta thing is very real--so sorry science is hard.

RHinVA wrote:How is holding her face while kissing rape? It sounds romantic to me. Maybe I'm picturing something different.

Not rape, but rape-y. Compelling physical intimacy without explicit consent. I mean, it depends on the context. If OP is saying, "grab my face and kiss me," then no, not even a little rapey. If they are already kissing, and OP's DH puts his hands on her face, still not. But, it sounds to me what she wants his her husband to start the kissing by pulling her face like she sees in the movies. That's the kind of thing that's cool when the woman already wants the kiss, but not cool if she doesn't want the kiss. Absent explicit consent, the feminist line goes, a man shouldn't assume that a woman desires physical intimacy.

First of all, please do not confuse the romantic scenes you view in movies and on television {even on reality television...Lol} as what most people do in real life. Hahaha!!

Second of all, if you want a man to do that to you, all you have to do is just ASK!! Your hubby that is....!!

Anonymous wrote:Tell DH that you fantasize about some other man doing it to you.

I hate to say I but this is probably your best bet.

Ugh I had a boyfriend like that for a while. God that man knew how to turn me on. I will probably fantasize about him for the rest of my life even though he was very emotionally stunted and ended our short lived relationship.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:sounds like you married a beta provider and not an alpha male that gives you the tingles.

This alpha/beta stuff is such bullshit.

Did you graduate junior high?

Yes, BS that is corroborated by a number of posts here time and time again - see 21:31 and the post in the other thread about another woman wishing her husband was more alpha as she feels it affects him in his career and earning potential.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thank the feminist for screaming rape all the time for softening men to the point where they don't want to be accused of being misogynistic.

Yup, it's all feminists fault. GTFO of here.

California adopted a "yes means yes" standard where consent has to be explicit -- lack of protest or resistance is insufficient. No explicit yes and you're a rapist. For my part, I don't blame the feminists so much as I blame the rapists. But, in any event, the good guys have been trained to wait for bright and clear "go ahead" signals.

Anonymous wrote:Thank the feminist for screaming rape all the time for softening men to the point where they don't want to be accused of being misogynistic.

Yup, it's all feminists fault. GTFO of here.

Yeah, I'd love for my husband to be more alpha male sometimes. Once a year even. Anything.

Never gonna happen.

Anonymous wrote:Tell DH that you fantasize about some other man doing it to you.

x2. Maybe that will light a fire under his lazy ass.

Anonymous wrote:sounds like you married a beta provider and not an alpha male that gives you the tingles.

This alpha/beta stuff is such bullshit.

Did you graduate junior high?