My siblings and I were spanked, also grew up in the Northeast, and we are around your age OP.

I only remember the spankings, never the reason why I was spanked. I think it did more harm then good.

45. Grew up in the Midwest. My dad used a belt on our legs and butt. He also slapped us across the face if we were being "smart mouthed." My mother used a Hot Wheel strip on our legs and butt.

Never ever ever. Everything mentioned above is child abuse.

Yep I was spanked a few times. Dad would make you turn over and hold still which was the hardest. Honestly for me, spanking worked amazingly well. I would do ANYTHING to avoid a spanking. I only needed a few to remind me.

My sister didn't care at all if she was spanked. She got spanked and then went on being bad.

39, Bethesda. Spanked and soap wash once.

Anonymous wrote:Yes, with hands, hairbrushes, & wooden spoons.

It was a drawn out process were we had to wait in our room semi-undressed for them to come in and spank us.

This is so weird to me. My mom spanked us but it was a in the moment type of thing - instant reaction when we were really bad. I would never do this to my kid. Sorry you went through that.

44 from the Northeast. I was spanked by hand (infrequently), threatened with the belt, but never hit and had my mouth washed out with soap. I was also forced to stand facing a corner pretty frequently and not talk, but That seems like the predecessor to the timeout.

38 year old. Spanked maybe 5 times total, with a hand applied to rear.

We don't spank.

38 from here. Parents were both well educated professionals (if that matters). We were spanked as young children, by both parents and only with hands. I remember when I was a little older, maybe 7, my dad said he wouldn't spank me anymore. I remember thinking at first, SWEET! I can get away with anything. Then, I think it was that same day, I did something and my dad took away tv for a week or something like that. I thought, Christ, what have I gotten myself into? I'd take a quick seat on the bottom over losing a privilege any day. Dad stayed true to his word and never spanked again. Mom did only a couple of times after that but also stopped. We had our mouths washed out with soap a few times. Not many, but threatened all the time.

46-spanked once or twice out of sheer desperation. We drove my mother to the brink. Otherwise, we no corporal punishment. We were sent to our rooms, lost privileges, etc. We have spanked a couple of times, and out of the same desperation as my mother did. We have two very headstrong boys and will admit to being pushed to the edge a couple of times. I am not proud of those moments and they will not be repeated. We use loss of privileges, time-outs, and logical consequences.

Anonymous wrote:Spanked infrequently, threatened with washing out mouth with soap, but never happened. I'm 42. Grew up in the mid Atlantic.

Same with me. I am 36 and grew up in DC.

What's with this soap thing? I had never heard of it before I read this threat.

I was spanked pretty hard by my dad. My mom never did. It stopped after I became a little older.

Spanked once by mother when I would not stop complaining about Mosquitos. I was mostly a stand in the corner and then later grounded child. Pacific Northwest. Gen X.

50 raised in the American south French mother and American dad. Spankded frequently, slapped for talking back, no soap in the mouth. Manners vigorously enforced.

Live in Chevy Chase MoCo and think the kids in this area are sweet due to being sheltered, but really lack manners.

Yes, with hands, hairbrushes, & wooden spoons.

It was a drawn out process were we had to wait in our room semi-undressed for them to come in and spank us.