Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Teens can't do this w/out parents signing. That should tell you something.
At Dewey Beach the lease signer just had to be 18, which many of the kids were. I think the fact that they were on the hook for the lease was a good thing. The actually took good care of the place.
We have a place where we require the signer to be at least 25. When broken we threaten to sue. Best part is we keep their money and get more. We just send a threatening letter to the lease signer and they cough up a few grand more. Our neighbors a quick to call if it is a bunch kids. Over the last 10 years it has happened 3 times.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Protection from a lawsuit is different from not being liable. But, whatever. Yes, terrible things could happen. And yet, many of us who have lived through it are offering OP concrete steps we tool to manage beach week expectations. Or keep your kid from beach week but don't ever imagine that just a few months later s/he'll be abducted and killed at UVA or shot at in the FSU library.
It has no bearing on liability either. The only thing hold harmless agreements are good for is scaring people into thinking they can't sue when something goes wrong.
It's not "the only thing" and sometimes what it is is enough. And signing a lease doesn't render you liable.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Protection from a lawsuit is different from not being liable. But, whatever. Yes, terrible things could happen. And yet, many of us who have lived through it are offering OP concrete steps we tool to manage beach week expectations. Or keep your kid from beach week but don't ever imagine that just a few months later s/he'll be abducted and killed at UVA or shot at in the FSU library.
It has no bearing on liability either. The only thing hold harmless agreements are good for is scaring people into thinking they can't sue when something goes wrong.
Anonymous wrote:Just tell your friend to invite a kid who was redshirted. They will be 18 and able to sign the lease. I had my 18 year old boyfriend sign our lease. Our principal gave the same speech to parents encouraging them not to sign leases and encouraging them to say no to beach week. We had our lease signed in November and paid for our rental ourselves. A few friends had parents who were fine with them coming with us. Anyone who had parents that were not inclined to give permission, I talked to. We had a full house when the time came.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Teens can't do this w/out parents signing. That should tell you something.
At Dewey Beach the lease signer just had to be 18, which many of the kids were. I think the fact that they were on the hook for the lease was a good thing. The actually took good care of the place.
Anonymous wrote:Teens can't do this w/out parents signing. That should tell you something.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We have a house at the beach. We see kids drinking on the roof of this one house with a low slope roof all the time. I now have the owner and relators contact info so I can call to let them know. Kids are not smart, don't do it.
Yes, and those "not smart" kids will be at UVA a few weeks after beach week. Will you go to UVA with them?
this was in response to signing the lease, not allowing them to go or not.
One requires the other: if you allow them to go, a parent must sign the lease.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We have a house at the beach. We see kids drinking on the roof of this one house with a low slope roof all the time. I now have the owner and relators contact info so I can call to let them know. Kids are not smart, don't do it.
Yes, and those "not smart" kids will be at UVA a few weeks after beach week. Will you go to UVA with them?
this was in response to signing the lease, not allowing them to go or not.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We have a house at the beach. We see kids drinking on the roof of this one house with a low slope roof all the time. I now have the owner and relators contact info so I can call to let them know. Kids are not smart, don't do it.
Yes, and those "not smart" kids will be at UVA a few weeks after beach week. Will you go to UVA with them?