Anonymous wrote:

I think it is unfair that people like her, have no right to be damaged, they must heal before bothering others with their pain, but people like him, or anyone else are OK to be hurt and we don't consider that on the same level. Because he clearly is damaged as well, otherwise, his pride wouldn't be more important if she did apologize. Maybe he didn't give an eff, I don't know.

This (x a billion).

You and me are two peas in a pod OP.

My new relationship lasted a bit longer than yours (3 months) and he dumped me out of the blue. I've gone no contact and have started dating again. I cried every day for two weeks. I know in my head that he wasn't the one for many reasons, but it doesn't stop the pain. Sometimes you just need to pick up and keep going. HUGS