Yikes. Unfortunately, it's common for one parent to falsely accuse the other of child abuse during a divorce.

I think it depends on the state. I read one mans online (NJ) and it was a doozy the things the wife accused him of. troubling.

Anonymous wrote:I background check all my friends boyfriends. It has definitely led to some break ups. Thank god they did not waste their time on these guys.

do you do it yourself or do you pay some kind of company or person?

Anonymous wrote:I background check all my friends boyfriends. It has definitely led to some break ups. Thank god they did not waste their time on these guys.

What company did the background check?

I should say *dated*. My sister dated the fraud doctor. She dumped him once the truth came out.

I'm 100% behind background checks (the paid kind) on men you meet - esp on the internet.

I'm happily married to a man I met at an elite school-- so I got to vet him verty young. Many women are not so lucky.

My sister, for example, dates a true sociopath who told everyone he was a doctor. Five years later (true story), it comes out he was never a doctor at all. He was a school nurse. Yeah, my sister is a bit of an idiot. But, wow if this man didn't have my entire family fooled.

So, yes, background check him. I would even pay a private Pi to trail a man for my sister now.

I love and trust my DH of 15 years, but god would i hate to be single out there.

You research stocks - of course you are going to research a person you are going to allow to be close to you!

Google his name, look at images. Mug shots are easy to identify as such.

If he is in maryland google maryland judiciary case search. There is a fair amount of information on there.

Can you give more detail about what you think is up? Divorce records don't necessarily reveal much.
Full disclosure: I had a TRO against my ex and he seemingly always explains it away to new dates. They "get it" later on.