Anonymous
Post 11/04/2014 08:33     Subject: Would this comment bother you?

to me it sounds like the teacher was working with your child a lot and rooting for him/her and was cheering "finally" when your child finally got them all right.
i would try to have a positive attitude towards your child's teacher.
if she didn't care she wouldn't have written anything.
Anonymous
Post 11/03/2014 22:10     Subject: Would this comment bother you?

Just ask about it in a non confrontational way, lets not assume what teacher meant.
Anonymous
Post 11/03/2014 21:45     Subject: Would this comment bother you?

prepare to develop a thicker skin.
Anonymous
Post 11/03/2014 20:49     Subject: Would this comment bother you?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It was a compliment and encouragement. Take it as that. It means the teacher knew the child had it in them all along.


+1

Not worth the hand-wringing. Move on.


Exactly. Parents are unreal! Teacher was complimenting her.
Anonymous
Post 11/03/2014 20:49     Subject: Would this comment bother you?

No. Teacher meant she knew I'd had it in her. Settle.
Anonymous
Post 11/03/2014 20:48     Subject: Would this comment bother you?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It was a compliment and encouragement. Take it as that. It means the teacher knew the child had it in them all along.


Anonymous wrote:My third-grader recently got a "Finally!" comment on a math worksheet, when she got all of the answers correct after missing one or two due to careless mistakes for several weeks in a row. It did not bother me. In fact, I completely agreed with the teacher's comment.



I would also feel very good that the teacher actually is paying attention to the child's progress to have made this comment. If she did not care or remember, she would not have written this.


This! And, explain that to your daughter, OP. Instead of allowing her to wallow in self-pity.
Anonymous
Post 11/03/2014 20:47     Subject: Would this comment bother you?

I would definitely save the paper and ask about it next week at teacher conferences.
Anonymous
Post 11/03/2014 20:47     Subject: Would this comment bother you?

Anonymous wrote:It was a compliment and encouragement. Take it as that. It means the teacher knew the child had it in them all along.


+1

Not worth the hand-wringing. Move on.
Anonymous
Post 11/03/2014 20:40     Subject: Would this comment bother you?

It bothered my kid. She was the one who asked me if I thought it was rude...I could tell she was trying to figure out if it was meant to be funny even though it seemed rude. I'm not going to make a big deal about it, but I am hanging onto the worksheet...
Anonymous
Post 11/03/2014 20:39     Subject: Would this comment bother you?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It was a compliment and encouragement. Take it as that. It means the teacher knew the child had it in them all along.


Anonymous wrote:My third-grader recently got a "Finally!" comment on a math worksheet, when she got all of the answers correct after missing one or two due to careless mistakes for several weeks in a row. It did not bother me. In fact, I completely agreed with the teacher's comment.



I would also feel very good that the teacher actually is paying attention to the child's progress to have made this comment. If she did not care or remember, she would not have written this.


+1000