
Anonymous wrote:OP here. When I pursued the JD/MSW degree, my main interests were in social work, but I thought I'd get the JD as well to have more options. Part of the issue is that I found most legal stuff I studied/dealt with to be incredibly boring and hard to understand. Maybe I'm just dumb, but I have a hard time understanding really boring, complicated material, which made up most of my legal studies.
Social work appealed to me more, and I liked feeling like I was really making a difference in my job. I can see going back to social work, though it took me almost a year to find my social work job, so it's not an easy job market for someone without the LCSW.
I always had difficulty choosing a career. There was nothing I felt I was especially good at/leaned toward in college, and ever since graduating with my JD/MSW I have had a lot of career indecision.
Like I said in my original post, my career has been one failure after another. I am hoping to turn over a new leaf and pursue something I'm both interested in and good at.
If I was able to go back to college and start over, I would probably have chosen something in the health professions: become a physical therapist, speech pathologist, optometrist, occupational therapist or nurse. I always gravitated more toward the health professions but I was always terrible at math and science, so I discouraged myself from pursuing them, though in college I was on the pre-med track for awhile.
It's probably too late now to go back for a third degree, and I'd feel ridiculous in doing so while my first two degrees sit there gathering dust.
Anonymous wrote:Pass the bar. Become a mediator of some sort.
OP here. Thanks for your insight about this. Am I just dumb?
But honestly I have an incredibly difficult time understanding things that are boring and complicated. What do you like about boring or complicated things? I can't concentrate and zone out when I am reading such things. For instance, health insurance. I cannot seem to understand my health insurance policy or how the benefits work, and whenever I call the health insurance company to ask a question I don't understand what they are telling me. So my husband handles this. Investments are another area that I don't understand, and I also find it boring and complicated. I'm a fully functioning person otherwise, but boring or complicated things are very hard for me to understand. Do I have some sort of learning disability?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Maybe I'm just dumb, but I have a hard time understanding really boring, complicated material, which made up most of my legal studies.
I'm a lawyer who sort of likes things that are boring and complicated, but I don't think it is reasonable to characterize all law as consisting of such matters. There are lots of practice areas (family law etc.) that are more interesting and understandable, if less lucrative.
OP here. Thanks for your insight about this. Am I just dumb? I graduated with honors from high school and went to an Ivy League college and graduated with honors from there. But honestly I have an incredibly difficult time understanding things that are boring and complicated. What do you like about boring or complicated things? I can't concentrate and zone out when I am reading such things. For instance, health insurance. I cannot seem to understand my health insurance policy or how the benefits work, and whenever I call the health insurance company to ask a question I don't understand what they are telling me. So my husband handles this. Investments are another area that I don't understand, and I also find it boring and complicated. I'm a fully functioning person otherwise, but boring or complicated things are very hard for me to understand. Do I have some sort of learning disability?
FWIW, I took organic chemistry in college and got an A, so I am capable of understanding some boring and complicated material.
No one can understand their health insurance policies and even when you think you have figured it out, they change it. Instead of looking at your career as a failure, look at the accomplishment you have made with your child/ren by staying home and giving them a loving parent (not to say you could not have done this working but it is nice being home if you enjoy it as I do). The problem is both fields sound better than they are in reality. Very few people are actually happy working in them, which makes the work environment a very difficult place, which sets up many to fail. I was in the same situation. I am so glad I left it/no regrets. Most of real law or social work isn't the book learning at school, but the real world experience. You just need to pick something, jump into it and figure it out. (of course that is easier said than done).Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I mean this in the nicest possible way, but I think you need to just accept that your degree is worthless, and consider it a sunk cost, and think about what you want to be doing.
Having a JD without being a lawyer is just not worth anything. Now- if you want to sit for the bar exam (and pass it), you could always open your own practice and try to do primarily GAL work. But from your post it doesn't sound like you want to be a lawyer.
Do you want to be in social work?
Not true. OP there are tons of policy positions around here. Legislative analyst, policy analyst, etc. I have a law degree and work in this field. I am not rich, but I make figures, and have great leave to spend more time with family. And if you get in an area you enjoy, you can actually make positive change for people.