I use coconut oil for deep conditioning but other than that I get more expensive stuff that doesn't strip my hair - I use Low-Poo
http://www.ulta.com/ulta/browse/productDetail.jsp?productId=xlsImpprod3960029
and Jessicurl products for conditioning and styling. If anyone knows of drusgtore brand stuff that is as gentle on hair as the above, do tell! I'd love to save money!