Anonymous
Post 09/23/2014 06:47     Subject: my spouse thinks I am fat
^^^By the way...I am saying this for you, not him. Working out will make YOU feel great!
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2014 06:46     Subject: my spouse thinks I am fat
It sounds like he is very fit, maybe goes to the gym and sees all the super fit women there. Can you try going to the gym with him? You may just need to lift and do cardio, which will be good for your health and appearance. Just a thought.
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2014 01:18     Subject: my spouse thinks I am fat
Remember, you lose muscle mass as you age. This is why people can be roughly the same weight they were in their youth, but still look flabby.

That being said, it's cruel for your DH to say that he is "disgusted" by your appearance. Your weight is not unreasonable for your age and height.
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2014 00:27     Subject: my spouse thinks I am fat
He's mad because he's closeted. Get a boyfriend.
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2014 00:25     Subject: my spouse thinks I am fat
Anonymous wrote:Are your kids grown? I'd cut any asshole like that loose.

Seriously. Kick his sorry ass out.
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2014 23:37     Subject: my spouse thinks I am fat
He is making an excuse. I would find out why - physical issue is possible, but an affair is far more likely.

Cheaters must demonize their spouses in order to rationalize their bad actions. It's textbook.
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2014 23:28     Subject: my spouse thinks I am fat
I weigh the same as you and I'm totally fine with it and so have been many, many dudes. This sounds crazy.
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2014 23:25     Subject: Re:my spouse thinks I am fat
Anonymous wrote:well from last 6 months, no sex, no interest, mean to me because I am "fat". I am sad, not sure I am fat but beginning to feel very insecure


I hate that you feel insecure over something so idiotic.
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2014 23:25     Subject: Re:my spouse thinks I am fat
Anonymous wrote:Sunds like there is someone else in the picture. Either that or he has some mental disorder.


These are the only options.
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2014 16:27     Subject: my spouse thinks I am fat
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He's just tired of fucking you. Why is that always so hard for women to understand?


Or maybe he cannot fuck so he shifts the blame on her.


I highly doubt it. I bet some sexy 30 or 40 something would get him hard quickly. A 50 y/o he's been married to for 30 years? Not so much.

Go fuck yourselves.
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2014 16:25     Subject: my spouse thinks I am fat
Possible eyesight issue - cataracts...?
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2014 15:52     Subject: my spouse thinks I am fat
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He's just tired of fucking you. Why is that always so hard for women to understand?


Or maybe he cannot fuck so he shifts the blame on her.


The far more likely reality. His (flaccid) problem - not hers.
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2014 15:24     Subject: my spouse thinks I am fat
Anonymous wrote:He's just tired of fucking you. Why is that always so hard for women to understand?


Or maybe he cannot fuck so he shifts the blame on her.
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2014 14:49     Subject: my spouse thinks I am fat
He's just tired of fucking you. Why is that always so hard for women to understand?
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2014 14:48     Subject: my spouse thinks I am fat
Anonymous wrote:Stop giving. Your husband so much poer. He's an asshole. You're not fat.


plus 1 million trillion!!!!!!!!!!!