Anonymous
09/26/2014 17:39
Subject: Chlamydia
OP, I feel for you. I've only ever had one STI in my life - and it was Chlamydia. It also happened to me after years of long term monogamy and being out of a relationship for the first time in ages. I had a casual fling with a much younger woman and she had no idea she'd had it. A couple of weeks later I started dating someone on Match and over a month after that I discovered 'discharge' - we'd been using condoms so not that big a deal, but she was super-paranoid about STIs (works in reproductive health field) and I thought that would be splitsville. I think it did introduce an ultimately fatal lack of trust. I had been screened before we started doing much, but of course, they don't test for that unless you have discharge.
Anonymous
09/19/2014 19:31
Subject: Re:Chlamydia
Anonymous wrote:Damn well I am judging here:
1. Two sexual partners so quickly without knowing their status, just in case sh!t happens.
2. Condom breaking/not remembering using a condom tells some about the OP and her lack of control over her own sexual health.
3. Asking an online community for advice how to approach Guy 2 about something so personal instead of your local doctor/nurse/pharmacist.
4. I am sorry, but SERIOUSLY....?!
While condom slippage/breakage can happen to anyone (and sorry for your infection), I can't help but say you are really reckless. Now this is why guys like me really don't get down with just any girl too quickly, and one-night stands are strictly reserved for older recently divorced women who are most like 'safe' and just want companionship from a trusted younger guy. Smh!
Interesting blend of sheer stupidity with tone of smug superiority. Well done.
Anonymous
09/19/2014 19:09
Subject: Chlamydia
Anonymous wrote:Op here
My dr wasn't very helpful about how to approach this. So I figured I'd ask here. There are tons of people here and I figured maybe someone's been in a similar situation before and can give me some tips.
Yes, I had 2 partners within less than two months. Those were my only parents within the last year, so I refuse to be slut shamed about this.
I made a mistake and I'm trying to do the right thing and own up to it.
Eh I don't believe you and I bet your current partner won't either
Anonymous
09/19/2014 18:49
Subject: Chlamydia
You're fine OP, much more mature than most here.
Anonymous
09/19/2014 18:28
Subject: Chlamydia
Oh shoot! I thought this was another post about names for baby girls. 
Anonymous
09/19/2014 18:27
Subject: Chlamydia
Anonymous wrote:Op here
My dr wasn't very helpful about how to approach this. So I figured I'd ask here. There are tons of people here and I figured maybe someone's been in a similar situation before and can give me some tips.
Yes, I had 2 partners within less than two months. Those were my only parents within the last year, so I refuse to be slut shamed about this.
I made a mistake and I'm trying to do the right thing and own up to it.
Only parents?lmao
Anonymous
09/19/2014 18:19
Subject: Chlamydia
Op here
My dr wasn't very helpful about how to approach this. So I figured I'd ask here. There are tons of people here and I figured maybe someone's been in a similar situation before and can give me some tips.
Yes, I had 2 partners within less than two months. Those were my only parents within the last year, so I refuse to be slut shamed about this.
I made a mistake and I'm trying to do the right thing and own up to it.
My dr wasn't very helpful about how to approach this. So I figured I'd ask here. There are tons of people here and I figured maybe someone's been in a similar situation before and can give me some tips.
Yes, I had 2 partners within less than two months. Those were my only parents within the last year, so I refuse to be slut shamed about this.
I made a mistake and I'm trying to do the right thing and own up to it.
Anonymous
09/19/2014 18:05
Subject: Re:Chlamydia
Damn well I am judging here:
1. Two sexual partners so quickly without knowing their status, just in case sh!t happens.
2. Condom breaking/not remembering using a condom tells some about the OP and her lack of control over her own sexual health.
3. Asking an online community for advice how to approach Guy 2 about something so personal instead of your local doctor/nurse/pharmacist.
4. I am sorry, but SERIOUSLY....?!
While condom slippage/breakage can happen to anyone (and sorry for your infection), I can't help but say you are really reckless. Now this is why guys like me really don't get down with just any girl too quickly, and one-night stands are strictly reserved for older recently divorced women who are most like 'safe' and just want companionship from a trusted younger guy. Smh!
1. Two sexual partners so quickly without knowing their status, just in case sh!t happens.
2. Condom breaking/not remembering using a condom tells some about the OP and her lack of control over her own sexual health.
3. Asking an online community for advice how to approach Guy 2 about something so personal instead of your local doctor/nurse/pharmacist.
4. I am sorry, but SERIOUSLY....?!
While condom slippage/breakage can happen to anyone (and sorry for your infection), I can't help but say you are really reckless. Now this is why guys like me really don't get down with just any girl too quickly, and one-night stands are strictly reserved for older recently divorced women who are most like 'safe' and just want companionship from a trusted younger guy. Smh!
Anonymous
09/19/2014 16:55
Subject: Chlamydia
I have nothing against frequent casual sex on a moral level it's that it's impractical in regards to stds and pregnancy.
Anonymous
09/19/2014 16:54
Subject: Chlamydia
Anonymous wrote:Dear lord you women are uptight.
OP don't listen to these dried up old hags. And I understand having needs...and I'm even female! It sounds like we used to say about waiting for the city bus...you wait forever for one then three come along together.
All I can think about after reading this is The Ladies Man and bus station skanks. Lol
I'd dump OP
Anonymous
09/19/2014 16:41
Subject: Chlamydia
Dear lord you women are uptight.
OP don't listen to these dried up old hags. And I understand having needs...and I'm even female! It sounds like we used to say about waiting for the city bus...you wait forever for one then three come along together.
OP don't listen to these dried up old hags. And I understand having needs...and I'm even female! It sounds like we used to say about waiting for the city bus...you wait forever for one then three come along together.