Anonymous
09/10/2014 19:47
Subject: Re:How often do you and partner have sex??
Anonymous wrote:So is it impossible to maintain formerly active sx life once kids are here??
A lot of people have chimed in 3, 4, 5xs a week. What exactly do you consider active?
Anonymous
09/10/2014 19:45
Subject: How often do you and partner have sex??
Good grief! So grateful that my DH is interested is having sex with me. A once a week sex life or less would be pretty bleak. My DH is at me every day-though I'd say we average 4xs a week. I thought all men were like that.
I guess it works if you both are sexually matched, but f not, it would be pretty demoralizing and certainly make the relationship vulnerable to affairs.
I guess it works if you both are sexually matched, but f not, it would be pretty demoralizing and certainly make the relationship vulnerable to affairs.
Anonymous
09/10/2014 19:14
Subject: Re:How often do you and partner have sex??
So is it impossible to maintain formerly active sx life once kids are here??
Anonymous
09/10/2014 18:58
Subject: How often do you and partner have sex??
No less than 17 times per week.
Anonymous
09/10/2014 18:55
Subject: How often do you and partner have sex??
Together 20 years , married 16 , 5 - 6 times/week
Empty nesters
Empty nesters
Anonymous
09/10/2014 18:11
Subject: Re:How often do you and partner have sex??
Married 15 years. Less than once per month. My husband isn't interested. We have talked about it. Tried scheduling. Works for a short time and then back to the status quo. Before kids, 3 or 4 times per week.
Anonymous
09/10/2014 17:49
Subject: How often do you and partner have sex??
Married about 15 years and three kids. We're on the once a month plan -- when I'm lucky. If I could have sex with my wife 3-4 times a week, I would. She's no longer interested. I guess I served my purpose.
Anonymous
09/10/2014 17:01
Subject: How often do you and partner have sex??
Sadly once a week. DH just isn't interested and we're both super tired.
We have a great marriage though and are crazy in love, make out and show affection in other ways. Sad.
We have a great marriage though and are crazy in love, make out and show affection in other ways. Sad.
Anonymous
09/10/2014 17:00
Subject: Re:How often do you and partner have sex??
5-6 times a week, married for a year and a half, together for almost 10, no kids
Anonymous
09/10/2014 16:59
Subject: How often do you and partner have sex??
Married 6 years. Lucky to do it once a month. Two kids - one K one in pre-school. DW is a SAHM with part-time help, but despite that DW always too tired, hasn't showered, feels yucky, not in the mood, feels fat, PMS-y, etc.
Anonymous
09/10/2014 16:40
Subject: How often do you and partner have sex??
I'm a DH and don't want to do it as much as I do but feel I need to to prove something. Not sure what.
Anonymous
09/10/2014 16:38
Subject: How often do you and partner have sex??
married 5 years. twin toddlers.
sex once in the past year. (I'm the wife, I'm the one upset about it.)
sex once in the past year. (I'm the wife, I'm the one upset about it.)
Anonymous
09/10/2014 16:33
Subject: How often do you and partner have sex??
Keep an eye on it and keep making an effort, OP. My DW and I were about where you guys seem to be. I wanted it every 7-10 days. She probably wanted it every 5-6. We probably averaged once a week.
Then, after kids, our sex life plummeted. Maybe once a month. I hit the panic button when it got to two months. I wanted it more because I couldn't have it. Now I want sex every 2-3 days, my wife says she wants sex once a week, and yet we only have sex about twice a month now.
Been married 15 years, have 2 kids ages 8 & 9.
Then, after kids, our sex life plummeted. Maybe once a month. I hit the panic button when it got to two months. I wanted it more because I couldn't have it. Now I want sex every 2-3 days, my wife says she wants sex once a week, and yet we only have sex about twice a month now.
Been married 15 years, have 2 kids ages 8 & 9.
Anonymous
09/10/2014 16:12
Subject: How often do you and partner have sex??
Together 16 years. Two kids 4 & 8. When I was nursing each child my sex drive completely vanished.
Outside of that, 3-4xs a week. My DH is ready each and every day, just like when we first met.
I strongly believe that if you don't use it you lose it. the more sex you have the more sex you want. We would do it daily, but I wake up at 5AM to go to the gym every morning. Sometimes we both come home for work, get the kids busy with something and do a quickie in the shower or in the master bedroom closet
That way I can get to bed early!
Outside of that, 3-4xs a week. My DH is ready each and every day, just like when we first met.
I strongly believe that if you don't use it you lose it. the more sex you have the more sex you want. We would do it daily, but I wake up at 5AM to go to the gym every morning. Sometimes we both come home for work, get the kids busy with something and do a quickie in the shower or in the master bedroom closet
That way I can get to bed early!
Anonymous
09/10/2014 16:10
Subject: Re:How often do you and partner have sex??
Married 10 years, down to 4-5 times per year!
FWB - 5-6 times each time we are together. Easily 10 times these past 2 days.
FWB - 5-6 times each time we are together. Easily 10 times these past 2 days.