Anonymous wrote:If you're hot he may just be using it to show off.

I don't think I would win many beauty contests but I get my fair share of men.

If you're hot he may just be using it to show off.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, are you the same person posting in another thread about how your boyfriend is creepily possessive and your friends think he's crazy? The poster who admits that he already ended things and now has a new girlfriend?

The person in the picture is the new girlfriend, right? Not you? And you're posting to see if he's serious because for reasons that totally boggle the sane mind, you want this loser back?

I am the asker of the this post and I didn't post any other posts. I will talk with him when I see him next. I do like him a lot and do not plan on breaking anything off. He is crazy like others are stating. I think he is happy he found me and so am I.

I see. There was another poster who described a similarly premature relationship (the guy did not like "the competition", wanted to be exclusive immediately, was possessive, etc.) and it sounded similar.

Anonymous wrote:OP, are you the same person posting in another thread about how your boyfriend is creepily possessive and your friends think he's crazy? The poster who admits that he already ended things and now has a new girlfriend?

The person in the picture is the new girlfriend, right? Not you? And you're posting to see if he's serious because for reasons that totally boggle the sane mind, you want this loser back?

I am the asker of the this post and I didn't post any other posts. I will talk with him when I see him next. I do like him a lot and do not plan on breaking anything off. He is crazy like others are stating. I think he is happy he found me and so am I.

OP, are you the same person posting in another thread about how your boyfriend is creepily possessive and your friends think he's crazy? The poster who admits that he already ended things and now has a new girlfriend?

The person in the picture is the new girlfriend, right? Not you? And you're posting to see if he's serious because for reasons that totally boggle the sane mind, you want this loser back?

Red Flag. Leave. Go with your gut. He is possessive and wants everyone on FB to know that you are his.

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Anonymous wrote:This thread is filled with ridiculous overreactions.

Yes.

Also: putting up a picture of the two of you as his profile pic after just a month is taking things way too fast. I say dump him.

- a dude.

Maybe he just looks good in the picture of them two? I personally would crop her ass out the picture but sometimes, it makes the picture worse.

Anonymous wrote:This thread is filled with ridiculous overreactions.

Yes.

Also: putting up a picture of the two of you as his profile pic after just a month is taking things way too fast. I say dump him.

- a dude.

If he is possessive and if you are not ready for this, I would call a halt. I had a relationship like this where the guy started referring to me as his "wife" after a few weeks. Very possesive. It got worse, not better. If this makes you feel uncomfortable, not good, listen to your inner voice.

This thread is filled with ridiculous overreactions.

Anonymous wrote:A guy that I've been seeing for about a month posted a picture of us together as his profile pic. We aren't totally exclusive but neither of us is seeing other people. Does him doing so show how serious he is or am I over-thinking?

What answer are you looking for? Are you looking for a sign that he is getting to serious too soon and that makes you want to bolt? Are you falling for him and this allows you to let down your guard? You've been seeing each other for a month, you are sleeping together, it sounded like he wanted to date exclusively early on but no one has agreed to exclusivity yet no one is dating other people. There are some guys that like to date one person, not juggle, just as there are some girls that like to date a single person rather than juggle so wouldn't take the dating just each other early on or even the FB photo to mean he is picking out the china pattern.

I think you figure out what you want and talk to him. The limbo situation you are in is not good. If he is into you and you start dating other guys, it will hurt him and could ruin long term relationship potential if you decide he is the one. If he is possessive/crazy, you would want to get out now before dating other guys. If you really like this guy but you are uncomfortable with the pace, you need to speak up for yourself but figure out how to communicate with each other and come out of it in a better place.

I would take this as a sign that you are indeed exclusive.

Are you sure that you are not?

Perhaps he didn't get the memo....

Anonymous wrote:Has your mom had the talk with you yet?

+1

I hope this isn't the same poster who keeps posting about the psycho cop who won't let her go....

Has your mom had the talk with you yet?

If you don't want to be serious with him and he is possessive, don't open your legs to him.