Anonymous wrote:Try therapy first, the grass isn't always greener, and you guys might actually be able to reconnect in a meaningful way. If you had more respect for him, your friends would as well. Sounds like you're both in a pattern of behavior/treating each other that you might be able to try and step out of.
Agree. At least give it the college try. It's very easy to start focusing on all that you see is wrong and building a wall around your heart. It's easy to only find negative. Give your kids the chance by exploring with a counselor before you head to divorce.