Op here again. No one seems to get the point. I don't want a new woman or to cheat. I want my wife to want to jump my bones. I know I'm attractive. I have younger and hotter women telling me as much. I was talking to this really attractive drug rep, she smelled so good and looked like a Texas goddess. And she had her hand across around my shoulder or my thigh and I just passed her up.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here but at least they see the outer package and is appealing. Wife acts like it doesn't exist.

Your wife knows you best. If we see she doesn't want your package, then we know it's broken, and we won't want it, either. On second thought, maybe it can be useful as a perfectly functional as a door jam.

Haha - best bullshit line I've seen here in months.

So many women have zero idea of what they REALLY want and when they actually have it, but rather than fix themselves, they project their shortcomings onto the man in their lives.

Your wife takes you for granted, OP. She's bored & you're not a priority. Some PP said, "try talking to her." It's worth a shot, but, "you take me for granted. You're bored and I'm not a priority to you." isn't going to make her interested in you. Most likely, she'll give you a list of things she wants you to do to make her life easier. Then, when you do those things, she still won't want to have sex with her, because you aren't entitled to sex. Sex isn't something you trade for or earn.

If you gave her a corresponding list of things she could do for you to make your life easier, think she'd do them? Or do you think she'd laugh at you for making the suggestion?

But those women who were flirting with you would get bored too, sooner or later. Only solution is to move from one to the next or accept sexlessness for the rest of your life.

Anonymous wrote:Op here but at least they see the outer package and is appealing. Wife acts like it doesn't exist.

Your wife knows you best. If we see she doesn't want your package, then we know it's broken, and we won't want it, either. On second thought, maybe it can be useful as a perfectly functional as a door jam.

"Op here but at least they see the outer package and is appealing. Wife acts like it doesn't exist."

OP, the basics of Women 101 is that when a woman is unhappy with the relationship, she's not going to want sex, regardless of what her husband looks like. She's focusing on her career and the kids because those are the two areas from which she feels she can get something positive. So, if you want her behavior to change you need to spend time understanding what is wrong and fix it. If she's yelling at you because she has a volatile temper and has always behaved like that, it means she probably needs to fix things. But if she only started yelling in recent years, that means you, and perhaps both of you, need to change.

Clear?

No offense OP but you sound like an idiot. What do you think single women in bars do?! Look for men. Duh.

TALK TO YOUR WIFE. If things are off, tell her. Don't tell DCUM. Communicate.

Anonymous wrote:So much man hate here!

You must be new here. This is the typical hen reaction for DCUM

So much man hate here!

The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.
~Abraham Lincoln

Keep your eyes on the prize, OP. Not your wife, your children.

No kids? Then that's different. Hope you work it out or get out; don't cheat; it's not good for your character.

Do you honestly believe any of these women would act that way after 10 yrs of marriage? I'm wondering how much attention you're giving your wife

Anonymous wrote:Op here but at least they see the outer package and is appealing. Wife acts like it doesn't exist.

An attractive exterior won't make up for an ugly interior.

are you posting this to get "permission" to cheat on your wife?

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Anonymous wrote:Only metrosexuals or gays complain to women on an anonymous board about their wife.

Good for you and your lucky slice of life. I may have thought like you'd do.

But now my wife seriously cares only about her job and the kids. Started down this path about a year ago after ten years of marriage. At first I suspected an affair but confident that is not it. Her priorities simply do not include me. When I try to talk about it it ends up in a yelling match. So I was at a bookstore today and got a lot of flirty attention from a woman working there. Might just go back to have a nice conversation.

This is why men have affairs. I feel for you bro. If your wife won't play either ask for a hall pass or a divorce make sure the latter will hurt her badly, though.

OP, maybe you have pissed her off one too many times.

Have you asked her why she is not interested? Or, if there is anything you have done in the past/present to lead to the disinterest? Could be it has nothing to do with you, or everything to do with you.

Op here but at least they see the outer package and is appealing. Wife acts like it doesn't exist.