Anonymous wrote:Does your wife have a hot sister? Best to keep this in the family so that any resultant children will be half siblings to your kids.

As opposed to knocking up some outsider. Those resultant children will have no relation to his existing kids.

Anonymous wrote:I would give my wife a hall pass, monogamy is boring. It's about being secure in your relationship.

Go for OK Cupid. It's hard to meet and have sex with a woman in the same night.

If monogamy is boring, maybe you are doing it wrong! That being said, some people are monogamous and some are not. The problem arises when a non-monogamous person marries a monogamous person. Can't work.

Don't pull the "I'm secure in my relationship so I can have sex with others" card. That is BS for MANY couples. Read some of these forums and you will see that while open relationships works for SOME, it does NOT work for all. It has nothing to do with security in your relationship and everything to do with whether you are a "non monogamous" couple or not.

I agree that if a woman doesn't care who you are having sex with, the relationship is over. It is possible that she is seeing someone on the side or is planning on it. You can't get object if YOU are having sex with someone else, now can you?

All I have to say is, make sure you use protection so you're not spreading STDs and don't get the OW pregnant. I seriously doubt you will find someone with such low self esteem she will agree to be the OW.

I would give my wife a hall pass, monogamy is boring. It's about being secure in your relationship.

Go for OK Cupid. It's hard to meet and have sex with a woman in the same night.

Anonymous wrote:Then she will have all the proof she needs for a divorce

Proof isn't necessary for divorce.

Pp here: she may also be using this so she can start sleeping with someone on the side too. This is more worrisome than you paying for a hooker bc if she suggested you sleep with someone then she definitely already has her guy picked picked out and is probably just flirting with him now but wants to take it to the next level. You guys will get divorced. A woman doesn't want to be with a man who doesn't get jealous or say no when she is fucking another man. She also doesn't want to be with a man who is fucking another woman. This is a slippery slope. Get her flowers and find a therapist.

Your wife is smart. You are giving her exactly what she needs to own your ass during divorce proceedings.

Unless you pay for it, this is going to be more difficult than you think. It sounds like you and your wife don't have a great relationship. She thinks of you more like a brother. When women just don't care anymore who their man sleeps with and is not jealous then there is a huge problem.

Wow...Really...??! Isn't she afraid that you may bring home a disease or something?

Anyway, I would try OKCupid or some other dating website. Or possibly meet some women in person at a local bar.

Does your wife have a hot sister? Best to keep this in the family so that any resultant children will be half siblings to your kids.

does paying for high-end escort count in the hall pass?

A rachel house of cards look-a-like for instance.

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Anonymous wrote:Wow the skeptciism and sarcasm are kind of a surprise. Guess I will just try a local bar.

It's mostly women replying, that's why.

What demographic are you looking for, and what time of evenign (happy hour, later, etc) will you be going out?

Considering he is looking for a woman, don't you think a woman's perspective is relevant?

A classy woman is not going to have a one night stand with you. And I do not know of any classy women who would be the other woman. They have too much respect for themselves.

I am 40, attractive and don't have a problem getting attention from the women I work with and around. But I can't sleep with one of them as they know I am married. I don't have an age limit, but I usually like classier women.

Bill, we know you have had plenty of hall passes before. You don't fool us.

His wife is smart. When he goes out and can't get laid, he will come crawling back to her. Then she might dump him.

From reading the different posts, it seems that women have an easier time finding a guy than the other way around.