Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you sound crazy. Really! Confronting this woman will not make you feel better. It will only cause more drama for your family. Focus on what you need to do to be content and move on, because clearly you haven't. What if she has multiple children? Are you going to confront her each time she is pregnant?

Seriously, you are on the edge of crazy

No, she doesn't sound crazy, on the edge of crazy, or anywhere in the vicinity of crazy. What a ridiculous thing to write.

She sounds like someone who's heard shocking news from her husband. I'm sure it'd be interesting to hear (1) his excuse for withholding this little tidbit of information all this time, and (2) what else is going to come trickling out over time. Because there's always a lot of something else.

OP, if you contact the other woman, you're going to regret it. Anybody who behaves the way she did is sick and depraved, and likely to react to your anger and hurt in ways that will hurt you a lot more. Sounds like she enjoyed fooling you when she was having an affair with your husband. Trust me: she's going to enjoy the chance to hurt you some more.

Another thought: her child is going to suffer horribly for having the terrible misfortune of being her child. Don't be a contributing factor to that poor child's misery.

Anonymous wrote:DH and I had issues. Resolved and/or working on resolving (like now). It's late, DH is in bed, or I would ask him to talk this out with me. DH cheated on me when I was pregnant 2 years ago. I just found out about 5 minutes ago that the woman he cheated on me with (at the time, my best friend) is pregnant. This bitch pursued my husband while I was PREGNANT. In my house. Crazy woman. She convinced DH that I was making up my feelings.

I am angry right now at the the thought that this woman might go through her pregnancy without the pain I went through in a large part because she was playing mind games with my husband. My husband has a lot of fault, too. But, this woman tried to console me while she was sleeping with my husband.

I want to say mean things to her. Like how she's trash. Like how she will be the worst mother. Like how I'm disgusted she's pregnant. I want to tell her she will never have what I have (a complicated, but normal life, a successful career, a husband who chose us over her).

To the woman who came into my home, said she was my friend, and tried to steal my life... I want to tell her that she's a piece of trash who hasn't accomplished anything in her life and that I'm sorry for her baby. She is not allowed to have a pregnancy free from her disgusting ways. Free from what she did to my family.

There is no such thing as a bigger person. There are winners and losers. That is life. Tell me why I should not tell this woman these things?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you sound crazy. Really! Confronting this woman will not make you feel better. It will only cause more drama for your family. Focus on what you need to do to be content and move on, because clearly you haven't. What if she has multiple children? Are you going to confront her each time she is pregnant?

Seriously, you are on the edge of crazy

No, she doesn't sound crazy, on the edge of crazy, or anywhere in the vicinity of crazy. What a ridiculous thing to write.

She sounds like someone who's heard shocking news from her husband. I'm sure it'd be interesting to hear (1) his excuse for withholding this little tidbit of information all this time, and (2) what else is going to come trickling out over time. Because there's always a lot of something else.

OP, if you contact the other woman, you're going to regret it. Anybody who behaves the way she did is sick and depraved, and likely to react to your anger and hurt in ways that will hurt you a lot more. Sounds like she enjoyed fooling you when she was having an affair with your husband. Trust me: she's going to enjoy the chance to hurt you some more.

Another thought: her child is going to suffer horribly for having the terrible misfortune of being her child. Don't be a contributing factor to that poor child's misery.

Anonymous wrote:OP, you sound crazy. Really! Confronting this woman will not make you feel better. It will only cause more drama for your family. Focus on what you need to do to be content and move on, because clearly you haven't. What if she has multiple children? Are you going to confront her each time she is pregnant?

Seriously, you are on the edge of crazy

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The skank is your husband, and the moron is the woman didn't divorce him.

Hang on, because you have quite a wild ride in front of you. He will do it again.

Oh for the love of the lord, ignore these DIVORCE posters. Good for you for making efforts to reconcile your marriage. Your husband is human, he made a mistake and you deserve credit for keeping your family intact.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Anyone who acted like she did is miserable inside to begin with. Happy, content people don't so those things. Isn't that enough?

This is true. The best revenge is living well and moving on with your life, and not giving her the time of day (and only having good, trustworthy people in your life who have your best interests at heart). She is a rotten person, if the scenario you describe is true, and makes poor choices and is unable to sustain a true, lasting friendship. You would never treat a friend that way. There is no way her life is all roses and sunshine.

Anonymous wrote:Anyone who acted like she did is miserable inside to begin with. Happy, content people don't so those things. Isn't that enough?

Anonymous wrote:The skank is your husband, and the moron is the woman didn't divorce him.

Hang on, because you have quite a wild ride in front of you. He will do it again.